"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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the double standard argument

btownbuck2012

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I got into this argument with a girl today about this crap women are always saying about how it's unfair that women are called sluts if they have a-lot of sexual partners whereas men are called players or pimps.

She brought up how the same double standard applies to hitting. You know, how men cannot hit women because they are stronger and women CAN hit men because they are weaker.

I replied by telling her that it isn't a double standard, it's just the truth that men have the physical advantage over women. Aside from those wiry computer guys, I've never met a dude in my life that couldn't kick the crap out of any woman he came into contact with. Granted some guys are weak and non aggressive, but I'm talking about if they actually used their physical force on women, it would be no contest. all day, every day.

Same thing applies with sex. You don't have to be a fool to know that a woman can get laid at the drop of a hat if she wants to, whereas men have to work for it, i.e. get rejected quite a bit before anything happens. Therefore I told her that if women are going to f-ck a-lot of guys that's fine, just don't get angry about being called a slut. That's how people are going to perceive you if you act this way. It's like a 16 year old son of a fortune 500 CEO showing up to school in a Mercedes Benz. No one is going to be impressed. In fact, they're probably going to call him an ******* behind his back.

She had nothing to say to this argument except that I "Don't understand what I'm talking about".

But women should accept the reality that if they're are going to celebrate and openly praise themselves for how often they f-ck, they're going to be called *****s and sluts. It would be like me bragging about how I tied my shoes this morning.

Thoughts?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Greasy Pig

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For a guy to fvck a lot of women, he needs to have a lot going for him. He'll have to work hard to get money, muscles, fitness, nice clothes etc - all the things that make him attractive.
Women just need a vagina and a pulse to get laid. That's why the double standard - quite rightly - exists.
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
I got into this argument with a girl today about this crap women are always saying about how it's unfair that women are called sluts if they have a-lot of sexual partners whereas men are called players or pimps.
Imma stop reading right here.

WHY, "IN THE NAME OF ZEUS'S BUTTHOLE", ARE YOU ARGUING WITH A WOMAN!?

Seriously, why complicate your life?

Edit: I see that Danger already beat me to it. I would +1 if I could...
 

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If a Key can open many locks, then it is a masterkey.

A lock that can be opened by many keys is just a sh!tty lock.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
For a guy to fvck a lot of women, he needs to have a lot going for him. He'll have to work hard to get money, muscles, fitness, nice clothes etc - all the things that make him attractive.
Women just need a vagina and a pulse to get laid. That's why the double standard - quite rightly - exists.
^^, :cool:

the stupid double standard argument drives me bonkers!!! i hate talking to them about it; and women are so damn stubborn, you can't change their minds no matter how much sense you make.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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