"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the double standard argument

btownbuck2012

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I got into this argument with a girl today about this crap women are always saying about how it's unfair that women are called sluts if they have a-lot of sexual partners whereas men are called players or pimps.

She brought up how the same double standard applies to hitting. You know, how men cannot hit women because they are stronger and women CAN hit men because they are weaker.

I replied by telling her that it isn't a double standard, it's just the truth that men have the physical advantage over women. Aside from those wiry computer guys, I've never met a dude in my life that couldn't kick the crap out of any woman he came into contact with. Granted some guys are weak and non aggressive, but I'm talking about if they actually used their physical force on women, it would be no contest. all day, every day.

Same thing applies with sex. You don't have to be a fool to know that a woman can get laid at the drop of a hat if she wants to, whereas men have to work for it, i.e. get rejected quite a bit before anything happens. Therefore I told her that if women are going to f-ck a-lot of guys that's fine, just don't get angry about being called a slut. That's how people are going to perceive you if you act this way. It's like a 16 year old son of a fortune 500 CEO showing up to school in a Mercedes Benz. No one is going to be impressed. In fact, they're probably going to call him an ******* behind his back.

She had nothing to say to this argument except that I "Don't understand what I'm talking about".

But women should accept the reality that if they're are going to celebrate and openly praise themselves for how often they f-ck, they're going to be called *****s and sluts. It would be like me bragging about how I tied my shoes this morning.

Thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Greasy Pig

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For a guy to fvck a lot of women, he needs to have a lot going for him. He'll have to work hard to get money, muscles, fitness, nice clothes etc - all the things that make him attractive.
Women just need a vagina and a pulse to get laid. That's why the double standard - quite rightly - exists.
 

vatoloco

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btownbuck2012 said:
I got into this argument with a girl today about this crap women are always saying about how it's unfair that women are called sluts if they have a-lot of sexual partners whereas men are called players or pimps.
Imma stop reading right here.

WHY, "IN THE NAME OF ZEUS'S BUTTHOLE", ARE YOU ARGUING WITH A WOMAN!?

Seriously, why complicate your life?

Edit: I see that Danger already beat me to it. I would +1 if I could...
 

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If a Key can open many locks, then it is a masterkey.

A lock that can be opened by many keys is just a sh!tty lock.
 

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Greasy Pig said:
For a guy to fvck a lot of women, he needs to have a lot going for him. He'll have to work hard to get money, muscles, fitness, nice clothes etc - all the things that make him attractive.
Women just need a vagina and a pulse to get laid. That's why the double standard - quite rightly - exists.
^^, :cool:

the stupid double standard argument drives me bonkers!!! i hate talking to them about it; and women are so damn stubborn, you can't change their minds no matter how much sense you make.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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