Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Touché! Someone's been practicing C/F!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Don Juan Survival Kit
- Thread starter ThisGuy
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Bartender
Senior Don Juan
The only thing you NEED is a plan and a backup to that plan. Whatever you plan is justifies what you are going to bring/carry.
The only things I physically take with me:
Identification
Debit
Cash
Gum/mints
Chapstick
(I carry both debit and cash incase I am arrested or have an emergency)
The only things I physically take with me:
Identification
Debit
Cash
Gum/mints
Chapstick
(I carry both debit and cash incase I am arrested or have an emergency)