The DJ in disguise is a guy who acts like someone who is afraid to speak to women. He plays this role in order to teach women how they respond to guys who are insecure. Through him, they become aware of themselves.
The pavement saint is a guy who acts like someone who lives at the bottom of the social ladder. He lives on the street, and is frequently drunk and wasted. He approaches people for money and witnesses their disgust. He teaches them how they look at the less fortunate. Through him, they become aware of themselves.
Recently(?) there was some bishop who went to his own Christmas service disguised as a beggar. He went into the church and approached the visitors with friendly holiday greetings and requests for money. Most of the people turned away from him. After a while he walked to the front, ascended the pulpit, doffed his attire and revealed himself as their bishop. To a shocked audience he said "I did not mean to humiliate you. But I did it to show you how you approach the less fortunate, and to teach you that Christmas is a time for all."
A "master" DJ in disguise is a guy who plays this role consciously and wilfully. By playing this role actively, he turns into a master DJ who can turn into a weakling at any time and switch between identities. In this way he toys with women to show them the truth about themselves.
I started consciously playing this role today, after realizing I had been playing it unconsciously for my entire life. The beautiful thing is that you cannot fail at playing this role. If you act like a fearful guy, you are playing your role. If you switch to moments of mastery, you are playing your role. Your only desire is to play your role better, more masterfully.
The master is someone who can act fearful and loving at will.
For the person who is dead scared to approach women, playing this role is the path to mastery. It removes the idea of being a 'loser' from the equation. No, you never were a loser, you simply unconsciously played your role. You were always a teacher. You didn't do this for yourself. You were never in it for yourself. You did it out of love for women. You will experience a great love, a heart overflowing, when you realize the nature of your supposed 'failings' in life. You were always a master. And some part of you, some higher part of you, always knew exactly what you were up to. In that moment of realization all the fear will be revealed as love. And you will experience a great worth.
I started doing this journey with the following. I was in a takeaway restaurant and some pretty teenage girl was helping me. I was talking to her, but when the time came to say "You're very pretty" I kept silent and let the tension exist. I talked some more and left. We had pretty good eye contact. Then I went home, and my meal was only lukewarm. I ate some, then called the restaurant. She came on the phone. I said "I'm the guy from just a minute ago. I just wanted to hear your voice again." "No, not really, I'm just calling because my meal was lukewarm. Can you tell Mauritio?" She said do you want to talk to him himself, and I had a chat with the owner, who promised me my next meal was free.
I was really nervous and no matter how badly, I said my line. In my own eyes, I did a great job, because I can't fail no matter what I do. I turned my existence into something that is always a success.
Approach anxiety is going to be a thing of the past for me. You must understand, this was the first time ever I dared say something like this to a girl. I'll probably go back next week, see what happens next.
This role playing idea is my liberation. I'm just going to pretend I'm an actor acting like a scared guy. And then try to push back the limits of what my act can be like. I'm going to make this a fun thing to do. I'm not concerned with "real life" success. I'm only concerned with how good my act is.
This, I wanted to share with you guys. I think all of us, even the masters, are DJ's in disguise. We hide our true identity. For fun. And then, in moments of ultimate effect, we do our magic. Approaching girls, and being rejected, can turn into a stage performance orchestrated by yourself.
The ultimate is when you act like a needy guy, the girl turns away in disgust, you harass her a bit, you walk away, and when you return, you invalidate all her assumptions and all the conclusions she had made about you, turning her around completely, and finally talking to her about how she had misjudged you and what she learned from that.
The pavement saint is a guy who acts like someone who lives at the bottom of the social ladder. He lives on the street, and is frequently drunk and wasted. He approaches people for money and witnesses their disgust. He teaches them how they look at the less fortunate. Through him, they become aware of themselves.
Recently(?) there was some bishop who went to his own Christmas service disguised as a beggar. He went into the church and approached the visitors with friendly holiday greetings and requests for money. Most of the people turned away from him. After a while he walked to the front, ascended the pulpit, doffed his attire and revealed himself as their bishop. To a shocked audience he said "I did not mean to humiliate you. But I did it to show you how you approach the less fortunate, and to teach you that Christmas is a time for all."
A "master" DJ in disguise is a guy who plays this role consciously and wilfully. By playing this role actively, he turns into a master DJ who can turn into a weakling at any time and switch between identities. In this way he toys with women to show them the truth about themselves.
I started consciously playing this role today, after realizing I had been playing it unconsciously for my entire life. The beautiful thing is that you cannot fail at playing this role. If you act like a fearful guy, you are playing your role. If you switch to moments of mastery, you are playing your role. Your only desire is to play your role better, more masterfully.
The master is someone who can act fearful and loving at will.
For the person who is dead scared to approach women, playing this role is the path to mastery. It removes the idea of being a 'loser' from the equation. No, you never were a loser, you simply unconsciously played your role. You were always a teacher. You didn't do this for yourself. You were never in it for yourself. You did it out of love for women. You will experience a great love, a heart overflowing, when you realize the nature of your supposed 'failings' in life. You were always a master. And some part of you, some higher part of you, always knew exactly what you were up to. In that moment of realization all the fear will be revealed as love. And you will experience a great worth.
I started doing this journey with the following. I was in a takeaway restaurant and some pretty teenage girl was helping me. I was talking to her, but when the time came to say "You're very pretty" I kept silent and let the tension exist. I talked some more and left. We had pretty good eye contact. Then I went home, and my meal was only lukewarm. I ate some, then called the restaurant. She came on the phone. I said "I'm the guy from just a minute ago. I just wanted to hear your voice again." "No, not really, I'm just calling because my meal was lukewarm. Can you tell Mauritio?" She said do you want to talk to him himself, and I had a chat with the owner, who promised me my next meal was free.
I was really nervous and no matter how badly, I said my line. In my own eyes, I did a great job, because I can't fail no matter what I do. I turned my existence into something that is always a success.
Approach anxiety is going to be a thing of the past for me. You must understand, this was the first time ever I dared say something like this to a girl. I'll probably go back next week, see what happens next.
This role playing idea is my liberation. I'm just going to pretend I'm an actor acting like a scared guy. And then try to push back the limits of what my act can be like. I'm going to make this a fun thing to do. I'm not concerned with "real life" success. I'm only concerned with how good my act is.
This, I wanted to share with you guys. I think all of us, even the masters, are DJ's in disguise. We hide our true identity. For fun. And then, in moments of ultimate effect, we do our magic. Approaching girls, and being rejected, can turn into a stage performance orchestrated by yourself.
The ultimate is when you act like a needy guy, the girl turns away in disgust, you harass her a bit, you walk away, and when you return, you invalidate all her assumptions and all the conclusions she had made about you, turning her around completely, and finally talking to her about how she had misjudged you and what she learned from that.