"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I decided instead of searching for a bunch of articles to read, i'd just post them in a big bundle from various website which will be listed at the end. And don't b1tch at me for not asking permission to post the articles, I don't give a fvck! If the author didn't want the public to use them, they wouldn't have written them in the first place. This took loads if time so hope you can find some use with this :)


Attraction

One Technique To Create Attraction
An Attraction Secret Few Men Know
The Ten Commandments For Attraction
Your Mind: The Key To Attraction
Psychology Behind Triggering Attraction In Women
How To Attract Women
5 Fastest Ways to Get a Woman Attracted to You
10 Ways to Immediately Make Yourself More Attractive
Building Attraction
Five Core Skills For Unbelievable Success With Women
5 Quick Fashion Tips to Make You More Attractive
How To Use “Sexual Tension” With Women
Are You Too Predictable to Women?
How Not to Be Low Value
Examples of Push Pull
How to be Leader of Women Rather Than Letting Them Lead You
What Turns Women ON
Negs Negs and More Negs
How Having Money Affects Attraction
11 Important Questions About Attraction
How to Make Her Chase You
Attraction Defined
What Makes You Attractive
Secrets of Making a Woman Attracted to You
Various Articles
About Creating Attraction
Attraction Building Routines

Approaching

How To Approach Women
Secret To Meeting People
Before The Approach
Make The Right Impression
When A Girl Wants You To Approach Her
How To Start A Conversation With Women
Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work
Tease Her To Please Her
Two Common Approaching Mistakes
The Tao of Judgement
Mistakes When Approaching
Active Disinterest
Opening Sticking Points
Neg Theory
The "I" Perspective
Where To Meet Girls
If She Seems Unapproachable
 General Guidelines on Approaching
Demonstrate Value and Personality
The Importance of a First Impression
 Pace and Lead

Approaches

Simple Approaches
The Cold Approach
The Collision Approach
The Available Chair Approach
The Crappy Sketch-Artist Approach
The Dramatic Approach
The Cellular Approach
The Familiar Approach
The Pez Opener
The Stunning Approach
Pacing the Ongoing Reality
Should I Buy Her a Drink?: Read Why You Should Avoid It
Should I Ask Her For Her Name?
Leech off Someone Else's Crash and Burn
If She Is Working
If You Just Have To Use a Pick-Up Line
Game Opener
Mr. Smooth Technique
The Questions Game
If She Is With Friends
Approaching A Group Of Many Girls
Isolating Her


Body Language

Reading Body Language
The Do’s and Don’t of Body Language
3 Must Have Items for the Aspiring PUA Looking to Improve Body Language, Tonality, and Posture
6 Gestures for Expressing Non Verbal Communication
5 Critical Elements of Body Language
Body Language Tips From Derek Vitalio
Attractive Male Body Language
The Importance of Dance Game
Body Language Secrets of Attraction
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thank you! Props simply for putting this together.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nice one Mate
 
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dude you rock
 
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Welcome guys, when I find some more good links, ill make another post in here, can anyone recommend some websites with articles worth expanding this with?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SO MAny things NOT MENTIONED

SPEED DATING, NET DATING, PHONE GAME, INNER GAME, CHEATING 101, IPOD DATING, COUGARS TIPS, 1-TIS, GETTING HER BACK, VOICEMAIL, FIRST DATES 101, ONE NITE STAND TIPS........

I COULD GO ON but you gets the idea.......IT truly is a way of life.
 
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COD said:
SO MAny things NOT MENTIONED

SPEED DATING, NET DATING, PHONE GAME, INNER GAME, CHEATING 101, IPOD DATING, COUGARS TIPS, 1-TIS, GETTING HER BACK, VOICEMAIL, FIRST DATES 101, ONE NITE STAND TIPS........

I COULD GO ON but you gets the idea.......IT truly is a way of life.
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Welcome guys, when I find some more good links, ill make another post in here, can anyone recommend some websites with articles worth expanding this with?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How many of you have actually read those linked pages?

Some articles are great, indeed, but there are quite a few along the lines: you see her in a restaurant, you go in, you fall on purpose, you become a buffoon and then you tell her that you did all those things just to get her to smile. Uuufff

Some articles are great, though :)
 
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