"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Don Juan Bible...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I can tell you that not 100% of people here have read it. But everyone should read it. Unless you have no problems, which means you shouldn't even be on this site.
Yuma
Don Juan
It IS a lot of motivational stuff, but it IS necessary. A lot of people who need to read the DJ Bible are AFC's or people fresh out of bad break-ups. Or just regular new members. So, the things that are in there are needed, I think.
People who have been here for years or already have solid game don't really need to read the Fifteen Steps, nor do they need to read most of the beginners material. But there's a lot of good information in there beside the motivational sections.
I've read probably 70-80% of it. It's quality stuff. Most of it isn't my type of game, per say, but it's all useful, depending on the situation.
We need to have a basics, high school, college, 'real world' and the mature man type Bibles. Each section I mentioned is too different to be lumped together as one since each section works drasticly different in how women work at said time periods. At the moment its too spread out only giving a tiny fraction of the advice it could to those demographs I listed.
Why do you think we get so many people asking basic questions on here? The Bible needs an overhaul at the minimum or it should be scraped and remade.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Master Don Juan
I disagree that you shouldn't be on this site if you have no problems. It's a good thing to help other people, so they dont have to go through the same things you did - without any guidance or advice.