"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Don Juan Bible...
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I can tell you that not 100% of people here have read it. But everyone should read it. Unless you have no problems, which means you shouldn't even be on this site.
Yuma
Don Juan
It IS a lot of motivational stuff, but it IS necessary. A lot of people who need to read the DJ Bible are AFC's or people fresh out of bad break-ups. Or just regular new members. So, the things that are in there are needed, I think.
People who have been here for years or already have solid game don't really need to read the Fifteen Steps, nor do they need to read most of the beginners material. But there's a lot of good information in there beside the motivational sections.
I've read probably 70-80% of it. It's quality stuff. Most of it isn't my type of game, per say, but it's all useful, depending on the situation.
We need to have a basics, high school, college, 'real world' and the mature man type Bibles. Each section I mentioned is too different to be lumped together as one since each section works drasticly different in how women work at said time periods. At the moment its too spread out only giving a tiny fraction of the advice it could to those demographs I listed.
Why do you think we get so many people asking basic questions on here? The Bible needs an overhaul at the minimum or it should be scraped and remade.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
I disagree that you shouldn't be on this site if you have no problems. It's a good thing to help other people, so they dont have to go through the same things you did - without any guidance or advice.