Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The DJ thing to do in this situation...

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ok so i was at the pool hall with my 2 girl roommates and my cousin last night...i went outside to smoke and talk with my HB9 roommate...we were talking and this bald head 30ish afc dude was like "Hey is that your gf??" i didnt know what to say...she said no were friends....he said "if she crosses her legs like that, that means shes not interested..." with kinda a smirk on his face...she said "No!...thats not true" he said "oh...ok" and backed off....

i cant believe i didnt say anything...wanted to say something and tell him to get back to his one guy buddy he was with but couldnt think of anything...

my HB9 friend was like "ken...dont pay attention to them...hes just jealous cuz he sees you with all these girls, hes a fvckin loser with his loser friends"i cant believe i didnt say anything to this afc trying to be hard...when she told him off he stfu. what would have been the DJ way to handle this? i know it woulda been afc to get mad....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm gonna rip off David D here 'cause it would've been a perfect line to get in some C+F in with your roommate.

Loser: Hey is that your gf?

You: Well, she wants me, but I'm playing hard to get.

Him: When she crosses her legs like that blah blah blah

You: Whoa dude, don't get all scientific on us. We're just here to have a good time.

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You - Kept your cool, were C+F, made him look like a try-hard moron

Him - Feels the burn and slithers back under the rock from whence he came.
 
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why do people gotta make things so complicated. U dont need some super line just act like u dont care (you shouldnt care) and say "thx bro" or "thanks for the input" "thanks for letting me know".

Ur status slightly dropped because the roommate had to reassure you afterwards which is not something that needs to happen...obviously it looked as if u were bothered by it so she felt the need to ease you with her words.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The DJ thing to do...? What did you want to do?

Change your screename to Jack Tripper. In all seriousness though, are you living with these girls because you got a thing for the HB9?
 
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belividere said:
The DJ thing to do...? What did you want to do?

Change your screename to Jack Tripper. In all seriousness though, are you living with these girls because you got a thing for the HB9?
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well i got a thing for the hb9...but she has a bf. but i dont want to end up like an afc trying to get at a girl that already has a bf and only looks at you as a friend. im trying to get out of the friends zone with her. ive been kinoing her a lot. i think its best that i not give her any attention and pretend like im not interested. i have been being kind of an a$$hole to her...i think im just going to next her.
 
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Julian said:
why do people gotta make things so complicated. U dont need some super line just act like u dont care (you shouldnt care) and say "thx bro" or "thanks for the input" "thanks for letting me know".

Ur status slightly dropped because the roommate had to reassure you afterwards which is not something that needs to happen...obviously it looked as if u were bothered by it so she felt the need to ease you with her words.

:crazy:
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Bullseye.:rockon:
 
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