The DJ response to a **** conversationalist?

[void957]

ok so today was my first day as a DJ, i read the whole secret guide on how to become a DJ by Bradd80 and it completely changed my mindset and i decided that from today i will be keeping a journal and actually start approaching more girls.

So im in college right now (england) and i saw this cute chinese girl sitting by herself under a tree with one earphone in and on her phone , so after a bit i decided to approach her , i did and she did not seem very keen on conversation and did not ask me any questions (only 1), when i asked her why she hangs out outside she told me shes very lonely. Usually i would have taken this as a hint but trust me the conversation was going so **** after a few more questions i decided to go and told her ill see her around. Eye contact was **** because she kept texting on her phone and she was listening to music. I did not bother asking her for her number, also i was dressed very smart today so idk. When i see her again next week ill be more fresh with my usual outfit and a haircut, so maybe ill approach her again (2 strikes.)



thanks for reading and let me know what i should have done in the situation or if i did it right.




thanks people, this is my first post.

 

[dk1990S111]

low interest...or just really bad people skills. is either one worth your time?

 

[FairShake]

Low interest is the correct answer.

A DJ would leave it alone.

 

[Krueg]

I dont know about the other guys saying low interest... you hardly did anything!! You didnt introduce yourself or try to make small talk. You could of easily said Hi, I'm Mr. Nice Guy, what is your name? What are you listening to....

Its okay young Don Juan you will Learn! Next you see her you better ask for her number, not weeks or months later... This way you know right then and there if she is interested. Girls who really like you will be shy around you, its okay, its because they like you! If not, move on; the next one will be crazy about you, good luck!

 

[Cremasta]

Eye contact was **** because she kept texting on her phone and she was listening to music.

Low interest and a bit rude. Throw in a bit of shyness and I doubt she would even acknowledge you if you did see her again.
Congrats on making the approach, but I'd just chalk this one up as practice.

 

[VladPatton]

That's just an Asian chick with the Great Wall around her. A tough target. Either way, she didn't seem receptive, so try some other chick. Kudos for trying.

 

[void957]

I dont know about the other guys saying low interest... you hardly did anything!! You didnt introduce yourself or try to make small talk. You could of easily said Hi, I'm Mr. Nice Guy, what is your name? What are you listening to....

Its okay young Don Juan you will Learn! Next you see her you better ask for her number, not weeks or months later... This way you know right then and there if she is interested. Girls who really like you will be shy around you, its okay, its because they like you! If not, move on; the next one will be crazy about you, good luck!

I did introduce my self and asked her quite a few questions, trust me we had like a 3-4min of **** convo. Yes i most likely will approach her and ask her for her number if i see her again, next time i will ask for the number immediately as someone else suggested on this thread as i can immediately close the deal rather to be left in a state of dilemma. I mean, if she gives the number and its real, she genuinely wants to know me right? regardless of how the conversation went?

Shes not a big deal to me, on monday i will be approaching many more girls , also i did approach as the happiest guy on earth with a constant smile on my face, she looked so depressed but yeh, she is exactly the girl i want (in terms of looks) its so hard to find a hot chinese,japanese girl! so whenever i do see one i seize the oppurtunity.



thanks for the support, is it ok for me to hold a journal here? as it will motivate me to approach more, so i have more to write.

thanks Dons.

 

[void957]

Low interest and a bit rude. Throw in a bit of shyness and I doubt she would even acknowledge you if you did see her again.
Congrats on making the approach, but I'd just chalk this one up as practice.

Yes, this is more of practice for me as im now approaching with a DJ mindset rather than a PUA mindset. If i do see her again ill just ask her for her number regardless.

Theres also this really hot girl in my chem class, im trying to develop the 'not interested' method in order to get to her. Ive spoken to her twice, shes really fun and we keep great convo, however ive ignore her in the past week and started talking to another girl(which is average) which i will ask out for lunch on monday, in order to accomplish the 'not interested' tactic (from the secret guid on how to be a DJ by Brad80), im hoping that by not giving her attention she will seek mine, also if i she sees me hanging out with other girls i will gradually become harder to obtain and become the prize itself.


thanks for the support