"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The DJ League

slickaz

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so i was thinkin..
and this is just me during my free time having random creative (or not so) thoughts.

if we were a bunch of super heroes like the justice league..who would you be closest to? or what would your powers be and what would you do with them and what would you look like(uniforms etc)?

reason im saying this..is because i was reading through a ton of material here...and is each person here has a special skill, a different type. some have power of making girls laugh, others have the power of making girls vanish :p

just a random thought...

if i was one id be.....The Spawn...naturally..


back to more important things..like work..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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War Against Betaism

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James Bond, lol naw I think I'd be closer to Wolverine. I do get impatient sometimes.
 

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Funny because I look at thie game like this already. I think of it in terms of experience points and character types and take my character types from the book "Art of Seduction". There are 9 character types:

1. The Rake - the gunwitch method is a Rakish method
2. The Ideal Lover - A romantic like Don Juan himself who falls in love with women and gives them the world, even though it may be for a short period
3. The siren - usually for women. People like Marilyn Monroe and Cleopartra, Maddona
4. The Dandy - A little flambouyant in dress and style, the dandy can relate well to the oposite sex. I think Mystery is a Dandy
5. The natural - known for their spontaneity, sincerity, and unpretentionsness. Their childish charms are seductive
6. The Coquette - There give plesure at times and take it away at other times, like a push-pull method. Mystery method and other methods use some Coquette traits
7. The Charmer - master manipulators, they use their cleverness to create pleasure and comfort.
8. The Charismatic - They have a great inner self-confindence and energy (sexual energy) that makes them seem extraordinary and almost god-like in nature
9. The Star - The Star is exactly that.... a star. Whether a rock star or movie star or whatever. One usually only becomes a star because they have some other seductive power mentioned previously. As a star, the rules change where you exerscise your seductive power in a different way.


The Rake and Ideal Lover are usually physically good looking.

The Dandy is what we would categorize as flambouyant and even metrosexual.

The Natural is close to what you would normally think of any "naturals in the game", although those naturals can express other seductive qualities.

My last girlfriend was a Coquette. I could hardly get any feeling out of her at times. This seduced me to try even harder which gave her a great power over me. She did this naturally.

The Charmer knows how to make everyone happy and can calm any bad feelings and change them into pleasure. Usually the charmer does this by bringing out the good things in OTHER people, playing on their vanity.

The Charismatic is almost spiritual and godlike in nature becase of the command they have over speech and their emotions. The Charismatic does not have to look good at all and many times tend to be ugly (Rasputin, Ghandi, Lennin, even Hitler). But they have great power.

I beleive that a true seduction artist can focus on one main Character but have two sub-characters that they can also use when needed.

I personally consider myself a Charmer as my main type of seductive character. But I play with the Charismatic character when I need to, specifically when I start talking about spiritual things and the universe and **** like that. Women love it. The main thing about the Charismatic is their gaze. I've been working on my gaze so that I can be a better Charismatic (I think Mehow can be considered a Charismatc but he tends to be a little Dandy at times, a trait he probably picked up from his mentor, Mystery) I also would like to work on my Rakish sediction power but only use it when I need to, like when I'm about to sleep with a women. I can try to Charm them into bed, but being Rakish is a lot more direct.

So, this is a game... just like Everquest or WoW. Are you reading your spellbooks? Are you going out in the field and getting experience points? Have you leveled up? What level are you at now? Before you can answer those questions, you must first start the game and decide, which character do I want to be? Well then,.... which character DO you want to be?
 

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hmmm never really thought of it this way.

I guess i'd be a natural with dandy qualities and a good amount of charismatic in me. I'm very spontaneous (Ask ANYBODY who knows me) and quite sincere, but i am a bit pretentious and it shows in my taste in clothes, and coffee :p the charismatic shows up whenever i put my mind to anything, i always end up ahead of the curve.


But as far as Superheros go, James Bond, Hands down.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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