"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Dj Films You Must Watch

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Hey fellow DJs, i just feel like that we should tell everybody the films which must be watched by a DJ and films which are good to watch with a HB. Post your inspirational films!!
ok ok guys, here are the films that gave me the most inspiration.
Hitch
Alfie
How to lose a guy in 10 days(chic flick)
Good films to watch with girls
Bruce Almighty
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kingdom of Heaven.

Plenty of action for a guy to enjoy and Orlando Bloom for your girl to drool over.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Even though its a chick flick.....The Wedding Date. Dermot Mulroney is a great example of how to be a DJ in this one.
 

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Luke!! said:
Scent Of A Woman... Especially The Dance Scene

Second that. Great movie in any respect.
 

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Titanic...Watch how Leonardo Dicaprio pulls in Kate Winslet in in this movie. I was astounded when I caught it on HBO the other night
 

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Speaking of DiCaprio...

Saw the quick bit of Aviator the otherday, where he seduces that Cigarette waitress. It was pretty pimp sh!t.

Also... theres a few good moments in Catch me if you can.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TROY. Girls love it and you should too even if Orlando is acting like ten year old and the scene with found wooden horse is just fvcked up.

Achilles "seducing" Brisea(she is HB6 because of the UG audience or what) very good. Paris is major pvssy. The movie is about different types of alpha men.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
u spelled manipulated wrong in the signature..

And this isnt a tip, more of a thread that could be in anything else.
I was waiting to see how long it would be before he caught it . . .
 

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Oh and another one is Fight Club b/c it shows how tough a real man should be and it shows how we should all be on bradd pitt's workout routine
 

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Fight Club, for sure. Definate DJ flick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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milrenkb said:
Even though its a chick flick.....The Wedding Date. Dermot Mulroney is a great example of how to be a DJ in this one.
Funny you mention that movie. One time I watched it with my mom, aunt, grandma, and female cousin. It was pretty interesting to see how they reacted to it. I guess he's a good looking guy, but they were REALLY into it because he's a true DJ. They couldn't stop saying how sexy he was and how they wish they could be in the girl's shoes. My mom still watches that movie all the time...
 

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Don't forget the classic.

"Casablanca"

True DJ's are timeless. Humphrey Bogart. Not a "classic" modern-day pretty boy. Those of you hung up on looks and finding yourself comparing your face to Leonardo DiCrappy O, Bogie was a Man.
 

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Probably the most unlikely but easily one of the most motivating and best DJ films I have ever seen is Rocky V.

I've seen all the Rocky films, but the fifth one is just awesome.

It's where Rocky Balboa retires and he trains a young thug off the street. The young thug starts winning and getting power, and he later turns against his mentor.

It's a great film and the themes in the film are priceless.

It speaks of fear and conquering fear.

It speaks of persistence, dominance, and perseverance.

Its speaks of the difference between arrogance and confidence, and how arrogance can lead to the fall of man.

It speaks of the difference between the old lion with experience and the young lion with vigor.

It teaches you how to stand up for yourself when others push you around.

It also teaches some themes on how to be a good father, and what makes a bad father.

It also talks about how money can corrupt those with greed and with lack of self control.

Great film.
Very inspiring albeit a bit simple.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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