Nicholas Hill
Master Don Juan
Don Juan FAQ
Preliminary version - To be amended
Before you begin…
If anyone would like to suggest a question, improve an answer or create a supplementary diagram, then please do contact me immedietly!
If it works well, this will be entered into the DJB soon on the top of the page.
I anticipate that you're going to use the acronym DJB in this FAQ. What the hell is a DJB? And a FAQ! In fact, describe to me a carefully selected list of acronyms!
FAQ: Frequently asked questions. I'm about to answer the common questions that suavers have.
DJB: The Don Juan Bible. It's the resource centre for newbies and established members alike.
DJ: Don Juan. A guy who is considered capable with the women.
You left out AFC.
Yes. I wanted to explain separately the fact that many people are confusing the meaning of AFC recently. Many think that the F forms a swear word. Almost all guys assume correctly that C stands for chump. Some incorrectly guess the A means simply "A" or "Absolute".
It stands for "Average Frustrated Chump" and as you can see, this acronym encompasses everything that a new age guy stands for.
What are the stages of Don Juan development?
WBAFC: Way below a AFC. BAFC is the next stage up.
AFC is obviously an average guy getting worldly average successes.
RAFC is a guy who is Recovering. He has found a source of real help.
DJ: Don Juan.
SDJ, MDJ: Senior and Master Don Juan - but this is just a board title.
How long should I wait to call someone?
I see this question every week! The ultimate answer is to call her whenever the hell you feel like.
No really, give me a number of days to wait until calling someone!
People like you look for a set of rules to abide by as strictly as possible, assuming that your successes with women are directly proportional to how closely you adhere to the standards.
I also get a little confused when people ask why there are so many conflicting views on the boards. It is true that you may get two or more distinctly different answers for the same question. Sometimes you will get good, but completely opposite answers!
The Don Juan lifestyle is not built on top of legalism. It is all about the mindset you have. The truth is this: That you, having learned everything you can, and having it embedded in your mind, should know the answers relative to your specific situation. You shouldn't consciously think about what a woman thinks if you call her in 12 hours or 12 days, but rather, you should have an instinct gut reaction.
There is another truth as well: That you shouldn't be this incredibly concerned about when you call a girl. This is a minor thing and there are hundreds of minor things to consider when dealing with women. Can you really handle them all, and look as though it is easy?
Church, God and the DJ lifestyle?
Jesus was a DJ – He kicked butt in the temple.
Ever come across a nice guy Christian who wanted to wait until marriage before he kissed a girl? That’s not how it’s supposed to be. Such an insecure guy probably turned to Christianity partly because of his insecurity and his misconceptions may have been transferred to you by common thinking.
The DJ lifestyle does not conflict with Christianity. In fact, it supplements Christianity by teaching you how to become a bold individual.
But what about sex?
There’s no question that sex is forbidden in Christianity because it is, but the mistake here is in assuming sex is part of the DJ lifestyle. It is not a co requisite at all. I do not want to get into the concept of virgin until marriage, but I did want to address the fact that sex is not the golden cup of becoming a DJ.
What is the quickest method to become a DJ? I'm looking for a shortcut.
The path to bliss is like a diet. You cannot survive on chicken alone.
What is Kino?
Kino is short for Kinesthetics, which means to touch. It concerns gently and boldly touching a woman on her arms, side, shoulders or other acceptable areas very subtly, so that she doesn’t think you’re groping her yet at the same time and so that she will notice that you’re a guy who is not only bold enough to “test” you but can also be touched back.
Study online:
“Most pathetic attempt at Kinesthetics”
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20912
“Kinesthetics”: A full study
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088
How important are Kinesthetics?
I guess it is five times more difficult to get anywhere with a girl if you don’t touch her. Touching her can lead to a kiss, rather than just kissing her out of the blue. There are many steps in what I call the Kino Process (KP).
What are the acceptable areas to touch a new girl?
The best area is a brief stroke on the side of the upper arm.
Other good areas are the anywhere else on the arm, the hand (if not holding, and you still want to maintain subtle touching), the shoulders, the neck, the cheeks.
Places to avoid at the early stage: The bum, any part of the legs including the stairway to heaven, anywhere else on the face and anywhere on the woman’s front (belly, chest).
It’s easy to work out where touching is acceptable: Touch yourself and ask “If a girl were doing this to me right now, would I like it?” It’s probably best to assume the “girl” in question is at best average looking. We all know how horny we guys are when nice women touch us, don’t we? Women are slightly different, hence the suggestion to imagine an average girl.
If I could concentrate on only one aspect of my physical appearance, what would you tell me to do?
To work out your muscles, not just the chest and arms, and to have an interest in eating the food that supplements the bulking up of your muscles – those with high protein (specifically lots of fish, egg whites, whole milk etc).
I spend hours each day working out! I'm not getting results.
If you cause an earthquake to hit a building, and then the repair men come in and fix it, they will make improvements to the building to make sure it won’t be damaged as much if another earthquake were to hit. Bad analogy I know but bear with me. What you are doing when you work out is ripping apart muscle fibres, and this is exactly what you want to do.
Repeatedly subjecting buildings to earthquakes before the men have time to fix it between them will cause the building to collapse completely. Working out too much actually has a negative effect on your body and tonality.
I’m sick of not knowing the proper way to work out. There’s so much conflicting advice.
Here it is in its truth then:
Work out very hard for no more than 30 minutes. Don’t take any breaks longer than a minute in this session, but you may have more than one break (really, after each 10 or so). Do this session no more than three times a week.
The two big mistakes of working out: Assuming food has little to do with it, or working out too much in an attempt to speed up the process.
(I would like Diesel to provide me with some more info here!)
I'm working out and I'm working out the right way now. Its still taking ages to get results!
I’ve been at it for a year and I’m only half as “big” as I want to be. The reason I continue is because getting a good physique is the most consistent way of improving, and while it could take a long time, you will see the results and you will become “naturally better” at Djing around as you get a better body. Stick at it, and never give up.
I’ve changed my routine and only recently have discovered the problems with my old routine. I’m bulking up pretty quickly now, and I notice a few things that seemed to have changed overnight. Guys I haven’t met give me more respect, and girls seem to look at my body more and smile. Those two things alone make it all worth it – and this is why I totally encourage others to follow suit.
Preliminary version - To be amended
Before you begin…
If anyone would like to suggest a question, improve an answer or create a supplementary diagram, then please do contact me immedietly!
If it works well, this will be entered into the DJB soon on the top of the page.
I anticipate that you're going to use the acronym DJB in this FAQ. What the hell is a DJB? And a FAQ! In fact, describe to me a carefully selected list of acronyms!
FAQ: Frequently asked questions. I'm about to answer the common questions that suavers have.
DJB: The Don Juan Bible. It's the resource centre for newbies and established members alike.
DJ: Don Juan. A guy who is considered capable with the women.
You left out AFC.
Yes. I wanted to explain separately the fact that many people are confusing the meaning of AFC recently. Many think that the F forms a swear word. Almost all guys assume correctly that C stands for chump. Some incorrectly guess the A means simply "A" or "Absolute".
It stands for "Average Frustrated Chump" and as you can see, this acronym encompasses everything that a new age guy stands for.
What are the stages of Don Juan development?
WBAFC: Way below a AFC. BAFC is the next stage up.
AFC is obviously an average guy getting worldly average successes.
RAFC is a guy who is Recovering. He has found a source of real help.
DJ: Don Juan.
SDJ, MDJ: Senior and Master Don Juan - but this is just a board title.
How long should I wait to call someone?
I see this question every week! The ultimate answer is to call her whenever the hell you feel like.
No really, give me a number of days to wait until calling someone!
People like you look for a set of rules to abide by as strictly as possible, assuming that your successes with women are directly proportional to how closely you adhere to the standards.
I also get a little confused when people ask why there are so many conflicting views on the boards. It is true that you may get two or more distinctly different answers for the same question. Sometimes you will get good, but completely opposite answers!
The Don Juan lifestyle is not built on top of legalism. It is all about the mindset you have. The truth is this: That you, having learned everything you can, and having it embedded in your mind, should know the answers relative to your specific situation. You shouldn't consciously think about what a woman thinks if you call her in 12 hours or 12 days, but rather, you should have an instinct gut reaction.
There is another truth as well: That you shouldn't be this incredibly concerned about when you call a girl. This is a minor thing and there are hundreds of minor things to consider when dealing with women. Can you really handle them all, and look as though it is easy?
Church, God and the DJ lifestyle?
Jesus was a DJ – He kicked butt in the temple.
Ever come across a nice guy Christian who wanted to wait until marriage before he kissed a girl? That’s not how it’s supposed to be. Such an insecure guy probably turned to Christianity partly because of his insecurity and his misconceptions may have been transferred to you by common thinking.
The DJ lifestyle does not conflict with Christianity. In fact, it supplements Christianity by teaching you how to become a bold individual.
But what about sex?
There’s no question that sex is forbidden in Christianity because it is, but the mistake here is in assuming sex is part of the DJ lifestyle. It is not a co requisite at all. I do not want to get into the concept of virgin until marriage, but I did want to address the fact that sex is not the golden cup of becoming a DJ.
What is the quickest method to become a DJ? I'm looking for a shortcut.
The path to bliss is like a diet. You cannot survive on chicken alone.
What is Kino?
Kino is short for Kinesthetics, which means to touch. It concerns gently and boldly touching a woman on her arms, side, shoulders or other acceptable areas very subtly, so that she doesn’t think you’re groping her yet at the same time and so that she will notice that you’re a guy who is not only bold enough to “test” you but can also be touched back.
Study online:
“Most pathetic attempt at Kinesthetics”
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20912
“Kinesthetics”: A full study
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19088
How important are Kinesthetics?
I guess it is five times more difficult to get anywhere with a girl if you don’t touch her. Touching her can lead to a kiss, rather than just kissing her out of the blue. There are many steps in what I call the Kino Process (KP).
What are the acceptable areas to touch a new girl?
The best area is a brief stroke on the side of the upper arm.
Other good areas are the anywhere else on the arm, the hand (if not holding, and you still want to maintain subtle touching), the shoulders, the neck, the cheeks.
Places to avoid at the early stage: The bum, any part of the legs including the stairway to heaven, anywhere else on the face and anywhere on the woman’s front (belly, chest).
It’s easy to work out where touching is acceptable: Touch yourself and ask “If a girl were doing this to me right now, would I like it?” It’s probably best to assume the “girl” in question is at best average looking. We all know how horny we guys are when nice women touch us, don’t we? Women are slightly different, hence the suggestion to imagine an average girl.
If I could concentrate on only one aspect of my physical appearance, what would you tell me to do?
To work out your muscles, not just the chest and arms, and to have an interest in eating the food that supplements the bulking up of your muscles – those with high protein (specifically lots of fish, egg whites, whole milk etc).
I spend hours each day working out! I'm not getting results.
If you cause an earthquake to hit a building, and then the repair men come in and fix it, they will make improvements to the building to make sure it won’t be damaged as much if another earthquake were to hit. Bad analogy I know but bear with me. What you are doing when you work out is ripping apart muscle fibres, and this is exactly what you want to do.
Repeatedly subjecting buildings to earthquakes before the men have time to fix it between them will cause the building to collapse completely. Working out too much actually has a negative effect on your body and tonality.
I’m sick of not knowing the proper way to work out. There’s so much conflicting advice.
Here it is in its truth then:
Work out very hard for no more than 30 minutes. Don’t take any breaks longer than a minute in this session, but you may have more than one break (really, after each 10 or so). Do this session no more than three times a week.
The two big mistakes of working out: Assuming food has little to do with it, or working out too much in an attempt to speed up the process.
(I would like Diesel to provide me with some more info here!)
I'm working out and I'm working out the right way now. Its still taking ages to get results!
I’ve been at it for a year and I’m only half as “big” as I want to be. The reason I continue is because getting a good physique is the most consistent way of improving, and while it could take a long time, you will see the results and you will become “naturally better” at Djing around as you get a better body. Stick at it, and never give up.
I’ve changed my routine and only recently have discovered the problems with my old routine. I’m bulking up pretty quickly now, and I notice a few things that seemed to have changed overnight. Guys I haven’t met give me more respect, and girls seem to look at my body more and smile. Those two things alone make it all worth it – and this is why I totally encourage others to follow suit.