"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the diva of your AFC days into you all of the sudden? wtf?

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Hey guys,

Got myself in another enigma. Not really, just confused….

A while back, before I started learning to pull women, I met this girl and the whole AFC cycle began….damn that was sick. It wasn’t till after she got bored of me and hooked up with one of my friends did I take the decision for a serious change in my life. That change was comprised of a lot of things, one of them including the chick factor.

So, two years later, I'm pulling chicks and living the lifestyle. I lost interest for that girl and took her as a little sister. Just recently, I started talking to her and one night I decided to meet her and another chick at a club. When I got there, she pulled me off to the corner and started making out with me – pretty sporadic shi+ for this girl.

Next thing you know, she's calling everyday and wanting to be in a relationship and go back to a side apartment she knows I have for when I wanna take a girl back home, or I piss drunk or whatever. Guys, we've only "been together" for like a week and a half. WTF? What do you guys account for the sudden change of mood? I know she use to get mad physical with me out of jealousy when we'd go out with my ex-gfs.

A couple of extra problems:

1st: I'm not really attracted to her like I used to be. Like I sorta just got used to her. Anyway to spark that up?

2nd: She knows me too well which doesn’t leave too much mystery left. Actually, we know each other REALLY well. Should I get of the relationship because of that?

Mad thanks to all you guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She sees you as a "safe option", or a "safe hookup". Something, or someone with balls, probably dropped a bomb in her world and turned the tables on her games and sh1t. Either way, she's come back to you because she thinks you're an easy enough fallback option, someone to kill time with until she finds another victim.

Drop her cold, or slam her into the friend-zone. This woman will gain you absolutely nothing in terms of a relationship. Keep your options open for other women besides her.
 
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Nah she just realized she dropped the ball on you and wants to **** on the low now that she's honry.

You'd be the equivalent to her of what strictly bootycall girls are for..
 
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cheers guys.

but DAMN did that make me feel cheap, especially after all my success with others!

I have a couple others I'm dating. Thats how it is with her too: just dating...

I dont call this girl too often but I did last night becase I suspected her and a couple others of causing some unwanted drama in my younger brother's life (he was fvcking her best friend a year and a half ago).

:cuss: I called her on her **** to see if she was behind it and her mood completely changed with me. she was ready to cry and kept trying to calm me down and what not.

I ended the conv with a 'whatever, I'll call you later', and hung up. she ended up trying to call me back 4 times thru the night (I didnt answer) and even called my bro to check up on him and to see if I was still pissed.

um...
 
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She sees you as a "safe option", or a "safe hookup". Something, or someone with balls, probably dropped a bomb in her world and turned the tables on her games and sh1t. Either way, she's come back to you because she thinks you're an easy enough fallback option, someone to kill time with until she finds another victim.

Drop her cold, or slam her into the friend-zone. This woman will gain you absolutely nothing in terms of a relationship.
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Beautiful advice.



-Cod3r
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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