"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hey guys, I seem to have run into a dilemma. It'd be greatly appreciated if any one can give me a clear cut understanding of the difference between a girl being very social and being an attention wh0res.
Much appreciated.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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san1 said:
Hey guys, I seem to have run into a dilemma. It'd be greatly appreciated if any one can give me a clear cut understanding of the difference between a girl being very social and being an attention wh0res.
Much appreciated.
The attention wh0re will appear to be loved by all but if you look closely there will be a lot of drama, hate and "misunderstandings" (actually the people hurt male or female by the AW understand what the AW meant quite well but the rest of the group remains fooled by her very convincing act otherwise known as the mask of sanity) surrounding the attention wh0re made known in whispers and gossip because bad feelings have been stirred up by the AW's total lack for the concern of other people's feelings and existance whereas a normal woman that is just very social will be universally loved by the groups she associates with.

The normal woman can also carry on a genuine intelligent conversation whereas AW's are only good at small talk and using phrases and things they've learned from their past male victims.

If you know much about the subject that they bring up with their clever phrase and try to direct the conversation about it the AW will expertly find a way to change the subject keeping her illusion of normality.

These types tend to be chameleons and it usually takes continued observation from a person that is not familiar with their type to spot a true AW in a very social group.

They are pathological liars to the core and actresses quite literally.
 

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a women being very social would constitute as someone who enjoys others comnpany versus an AW who "wants/needs" eveyones company

distinguished difference would be this :

a guy compliments another women on her nice jeans. the AW who also is in the crowd interjects and turns the attention on to herself.

a social women would either agree with the compliment or say nothing.
 

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Attention Wh0res Want Actual Attention And The Focus To Be On Them At All Times.

Social Girls Will Interact With A Lot Of People, But The Attention/focus Will Not Always Be On Them. They Should Seem More Down To Earth, More Like The Girl Next Door, As The Attention Wh0re Will Act Just Like A Slvt
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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