Do not think. BELIEVE in what you want.
The subconscious overrules conscious thought all the time.
My example, I read all the threads saying dont stop game when you get a girl, and my goal I had was not "Getting the girl" .... Or so I thought.
So.. after three months of vigorous self improvement and positive thinking, I ended up with a girl.. who I had worked on for maybe a month (as a backup girl that turned into a main focus) I had illicited values from her, put her through my tests, and decided she was worth giving it a shot.
We started dating and I started to let my mental (inner game) slack and became what everyone dreads... An AFC. Well time passes and I could see this change occuring, so I started to try and stop it. How did I do this? I asked myself why it happened and it was because my SUBCONSCIOUS self, the part of me that knows things before I do... Still had the AFC goal of having a girl in me. I was SATISFIED with just being with her so "AFC-love" a.k.a. infatuation set into me.
It made me lazy, it made me not care who had the control in the relationship...
BUT WHY?
I had a false sense of happiness. Guess what it was? Fulfillment. I had finally fulfilled a goal I had for so long, that I ceased to aspire. My happiness started to be based off her and I became a full-blown AFC...
BUT I realized this, came back, and am now on top of things.. things come naturally, she knows I am the man and she is submissive (in a healthy way), hell.. I have even talked to her about game, about DJ, about self improvement.. (I am still in highschool, so no major commitment is in this. I just want to help her acheive happiness that I have so she can live happily)
The variable in all of this is MY HAPPINESS. I changed what made me happy through self thought, meditation, and positive thinking. I put the happiness on ME. Something I could control.
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OVERALL - I was not as happy as I thought, just happier than previously thought. My subconscious knew this and gave me a false feeling of happiness when I reached my goal. I stopped my aspiring and became satisfied..
WORK towards subconscious happiness (happy to be alive)
What you THINK and BELIEVE are two different things. What you believe has more control than you think
Be HAPPY with what you have, but ALWAYS ASPIRE for better
'Sidenote' I am slightly under the influence, so ill improve this/edit when Im sober.
The subconscious overrules conscious thought all the time.
My example, I read all the threads saying dont stop game when you get a girl, and my goal I had was not "Getting the girl" .... Or so I thought.
So.. after three months of vigorous self improvement and positive thinking, I ended up with a girl.. who I had worked on for maybe a month (as a backup girl that turned into a main focus) I had illicited values from her, put her through my tests, and decided she was worth giving it a shot.
We started dating and I started to let my mental (inner game) slack and became what everyone dreads... An AFC. Well time passes and I could see this change occuring, so I started to try and stop it. How did I do this? I asked myself why it happened and it was because my SUBCONSCIOUS self, the part of me that knows things before I do... Still had the AFC goal of having a girl in me. I was SATISFIED with just being with her so "AFC-love" a.k.a. infatuation set into me.
It made me lazy, it made me not care who had the control in the relationship...
BUT WHY?
I had a false sense of happiness. Guess what it was? Fulfillment. I had finally fulfilled a goal I had for so long, that I ceased to aspire. My happiness started to be based off her and I became a full-blown AFC...
BUT I realized this, came back, and am now on top of things.. things come naturally, she knows I am the man and she is submissive (in a healthy way), hell.. I have even talked to her about game, about DJ, about self improvement.. (I am still in highschool, so no major commitment is in this. I just want to help her acheive happiness that I have so she can live happily)
The variable in all of this is MY HAPPINESS. I changed what made me happy through self thought, meditation, and positive thinking. I put the happiness on ME. Something I could control.
-------
OVERALL - I was not as happy as I thought, just happier than previously thought. My subconscious knew this and gave me a false feeling of happiness when I reached my goal. I stopped my aspiring and became satisfied..
WORK towards subconscious happiness (happy to be alive)
What you THINK and BELIEVE are two different things. What you believe has more control than you think
Be HAPPY with what you have, but ALWAYS ASPIRE for better
'Sidenote' I am slightly under the influence, so ill improve this/edit when Im sober.