"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The difference between the AFC and the DJ(in training)

LuisGarcia10

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Here's a prime example.

The other week in an IT lesson I was talking to this girl, I've actually mentioned her before. She has a boyfreind so I was never going for the kill but just thought I'd test a few things out, after all, getting a reaction from a girl with a boyfreind is usually one of the tougher tasks.

Anyway, last week I was talking to her in the lesson and DJ'ing her a bit, just cracking little jokes at her etc... She ended up going out of the lesson and telling my freind who's somewhat AFC how annoying I was and she was going through various things. Bearing in mind he's known this girl for years and has been out with her twice so you'd think he'd know how she operates.

He then tells me the following day how she dosen't like me what so ever etc. I just said to him,

"I bet you anything she does like me."

The argument continued and I eventually told him to wait until the next IT class and see what happens.

She comes into the class which has about 20 empty seats and chooses a seat next to me. She then proceeds to flirt openly, kino me etc. Everytime I was talking to the good looking girl sat next to me she'd interpupt etc and try and make her self known. At one point she even moved her chair around between the two of us to make sure that I couldn't have a conversation with her.

Now that just proves how this website can help you understand women. Had the same thing happened to me a few months ago I'd have believed him and assumed she didn't like me. Instead I understood that she'd treat it as a challenge and infact spent a whole lesson flirting with me and trying to break up my conversations with the good looking girl that I was talking to.

The AFC believes everything a woman says, the DJ interprets everything a woman says, and there my freinds, is one of the biggest differences between the two.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rgeere

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You're right on the money, though I have never quite thought of it enough to know how to put it into words like this before.

In the end it's not what comes out of a woman's mouth that matter, it's what goes into it. You'd be surprised how two faced women are in public, but when you get them alone they can be all over you and no one but you would have seen it coming.
 

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Exactly, regree.

When I was at High School a girl persistently told me how she hated a paticular bloke in our year.

She ended up going out with him 3 times.
 

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Originally posted by LuisGarcia10
Exactly, regree.

When I was at High School a girl persistently told me how she hated a paticular bloke in our year.

She ended up going out with him 3 times.
so ****ing true. This girl (who thought I was hot but I wouldnt touch with a 50 foot pole) kept telling me how she hated this guy so much had dreams about him lol. I saw her recently and she told me how she sucked his balls. I was not surprised in the least when she told me how much she hated him I kept saying to her I bet you want him.
 
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