"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the difference between suplicating(Suffocating) and giving!

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frivolousz21

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alright this can be a fine line and mis-understood!


here are some examples:

taking her to do something that you dont want to do....well u want to do but not as much as she does....:

supplicating: you pay for her..get nothing but friendly responses in return.

giving: you pay for her, you get reciprocation from affection(kissing, touching) verbal affection, and possibly sex) or she pays






supplicating: you call her 3 or 4 times a day and she doenst answer or call back when u want her too.


giving: you call her when she know you will call..because u have communication and plan ahead to keep balance and she is just as eager to hear you speak and you are her.



supplicating: buying her anything for no reason! dont buy her flowers, candy, little gifts!


giving: you mutually do things for her..if she buys you something then repay the favor..but dont initate buying anything unless its for a b day or very special event.



supplicating: telling her how you feel about her..and getting nothing in return.


giving: telling her how u feel and she agrees with wht u said or says her version of what you said. or she initiates.


there are more and I Will add more as they come to me.


if u feel like its a 1 way street it is...move on!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21


giving: you pay for her, you get reciprocation from affection(kissing, touching) verbal affection, and possibly sex) or she pays
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I'm not paying for her sex.

What happened to "the payment for her sex is my sex" or whatever the exact quote is?


Thank god my gf has rabbit-like qualities.
 
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well i know ur not paying for sex.

you know i didnt imply that.....

im just pointing out for the guys who think they take a girl out on a date and they get nothing......


funny thing is..most of the nights I spend no money are the ones im getting laid
 
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