"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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The Difference between 'making love' and 'getting nailed'!

TheTrinket

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So there's this girl, so far it seems she just likes to get nailed aggressively, the whole 5 halfway/5 deep pounds are too 'slow' for her, so we just basically $%^@.

However, I want to go a bit slower, have a bit of foreplay and then nail her, but I wonder if she's into that or just wants me to go for the gold off the bat? Is there someway to communicate that I'd like some foreplay without her getting bored/anxious? Do some girls simply like getting nailed rather then 'making love'?
 

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strong like bull

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yes.

everybody is different.

some people are 100% content with making out, getting naked and fvcking only missionary style then coming. that makes them happy.

others might think of that as boring... maybe this couple loves to roleplay and dress up during sex. or maybe they like having acrobatic sex involving a dozen positions before orgasm.

and some people like it hard, fast and to the point. a rough, intense "quickie" makes them feel great... whereas lots of foreplay and slow sex might bore them.

then of course, you have people who are into the slow, passionate, intimate, starry-eyed sex.

its all good. everyone has their own tastes.

you seem to know what it is that you like. thats good. try it slower and see how she likes it. if she complains...

well, its important in any relationship for the two of you to communicate. sexual disharmonies happen. she might love having slow sex. she might hate it. if she cares about you, or isnt selfish, she might be willing to work with you on having it both ways so everyones happy.

it takes different things to genuinely please different people. one night, you guys can have a romantic evening, lots of intimate foreplay and a slow climax... and then the next night, you sneak up behind her, grab her and cover her mouth, rip off her panties and fvck her brains out.

work with eachother.

-SLB
 

DonJuanMonk

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Depends on the girl and mood, you can always tell if she prefers slow or fast - her body will respond to you going faster or slower.

But progressive f-cking to fast f-cking is seen as something girls want from my observation.
 

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Everybody likes something different. She just might like to get nailed real hard, nothing more, nothing less.
 
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