"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Difference between a GIRL and a WOMAN

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I find these 18-21 year old girls to be childish, stuck up, full of plausible deniabilty when it comes to who they choose to have sex with, uncertain, generally difficult to access and not willing to meet new people, immature, and b!tchy. Plus, they act like they are 12.

Most of the attractive 18-21 year olds deny having casual sex and try to avoid the label of "s!ut" when most of them actually are. They claim they only do things with a "boyfriend" and yet they don't have any of the character traits of being a good "girlfriend" (clubbing, drinking, partying, getting drunk and hooking up) so nobody wants to be in serious relationships with them anyway.

They love to deny that they F men over 35 for gifts...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Maxwell said:
You mean women actually have sex drives? :eek:
I know this is not only a ridiculous misconception but also an impossibility, (the continued existence of out species rules it out) but I can't help but feel like sex is this fictional thing that serves as a plot device in books and movies and just doesn't happen in reality, like dragons and unicorns. In my experience, girls all seem to consider it this disgusting thing they'd prefer to never even mention, much less take part in. They act as if it was smallpox rather than a potentially pleasurable thing.
I'd love to believe that women want and seek out sex as well, but it's like trying to believe in ghosts from my sheltered perspective.
:rolleyes: yes, women do indeed have sex drives and more often than not, they are higher than men's. especially when they hit their early-mid 30s and their hormones peak.

damn bro. you are so confused and lost. i used to be in your shoes 2 years ago too. i used to believe a girl was doing me a favour by sleeping with me. man, a lot has changed in that time.

i have become a master in the bedroom at pleasuring women and now, having sex with them is THEIR treat.

yes, women love having sex. but they need to be strongly attracted to you, in order for them to let the freak out of the closet. you need to make yourself into an attractive man and you will have no problem getting laid.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I find these 18-21 year old girls to be childish, stuck up, full of plausible deniabilty when it comes to who they choose to have sex with, uncertain, generally difficult to access and not willing to meet new people, immature, and b!tchy. Plus, they act like they are 12.

Most of the attractive 18-21 year olds deny having casual sex and try to avoid the label of "s!ut" when most of them actually are. They claim they only do things with a "boyfriend" and yet they don't have any of the character traits of being a good "girlfriend" (clubbing, drinking, partying, getting drunk and hooking up) so nobody wants to be in serious relationships with them anyway.
one of the guys on here is actually in the game.. thank god.

i was sick of hearing keyboard jockey responses to this .. but the sad reality in the game is that these young girls don't know a good thing when they see it. they dont have the experience and they do not have the training/wisdom yet to know what is important in life. they are still in their PARTY GIRL mode... which is totally unsuitable for a relationship.

i am willing to say this goes on anywhere from 15 to 25 for women and usually lasts the entire time.

who really wants to be in a relationship with a drunk party girl who ends up fvckin god knows who every time she goes to a party? screw that.

real women is where it's at.
 

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I'm 23, but I'm a graduate program and most of the people here tend to be a little older (25+). I've definitely noticed a significant difference in the level of maturity between 18-22 year olds and girls who are 24+. 23 year old chicks are right in the middle.

25 year old women seem much more secure, confident and easy going. They're past a lot of the childish drama that younger girls like to engage in. In fact, even though it's been just over a year since I graduated college, a lot of college chicks seem really immature to me know.

Because 25 year old women are more developed, they are friendlier, more outgoing and less criptic. They're a lot easier to figure out too. The only problem is that by their mid 20s, a high percentage of these girls are in committed relationships. But the ones that are still single are really on the prowl.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I find these 18-21 year old girls to be childish, stuck up, full of plausible deniabilty when it comes to who they choose to have sex with, uncertain, generally difficult to access and not willing to meet new people, immature, and b!tchy. Plus, they act like they are 12.

Most of the attractive 18-21 year olds deny having casual sex and try to avoid the label of "s!ut" when most of them actually are. They claim they only do things with a "boyfriend" and yet they don't have any of the character traits of being a good "girlfriend" (clubbing, drinking, partying, getting drunk and hooking up) so nobody wants to be in serious relationships with them anyway.
Amen, brother. I've always thought that most college girls act like they're 12, except now they are slvts too.

That's why it's sometimes hard not to get one-itus. Girls are NOT all the same. Most fit the description above.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i'm so happy you guys are actually seeing the light in the tunnel.

girls in my college classes are ignorant as hell and immature. i do not want to waste my time on a woman who does not know how to treat a man like a man.
 

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18 28 38 I dont care as long as they're hot. Who gives a cr@p. Nice ass is nice ass case closed.

(Oh, and I love 18yr olds he he!)
 
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