The DGAF Method

[Don Ronny]

I have been getting quite a bit of hate mail due to my recent string of posts. Now granted, my methods may seem unorthodox, or downright childish, but rest assured that they work very well for me.

Nevertheless, your protests really made me think about why these techniques work...the deeper meaning behind it all. I discovered the truth about myself in a Fingers post..

Originally posted by Mr. Fingers
...ironically enough, when you sincerely don’t give a fúck, you are much more likely to get one!

So true! This encompasses the heart of my game. I honestly Don't Give A FUKK! (DGAF)

I dont take girls on dates where I think they want to go. I take them out to places I want to be. I could honestly not care less about their interests, hobbies, etc. until they have shown some interest in mine. Women are wired to respond to this behavior. Its almost like on a primitive level they can sense that I am the selector and I have many options on my plate. That they actually have to WORK to keep me interested.

Oftentimes they get jealous and ask about my other girlfriends. Once again, my DGAF mentality saves the day...

HER: So how many girlfriends do you have?

ME: I am seeing a couple of women right now, but none of them has earned enough stars to get the "girlfriend" status. Sure, some people think I am a dog, but deep down I want love and affection like anyone else...I am just extra picky about who I share it with.

See how I present a challenge but at the same time I dont play games with them? I tell them the God's honest truth because I am not worried about what they will think of me. I don't give a fukk!

Same goes for when I try to get physical and they reject me. I never take it personal, if a chick says " we should not be doing this" or tries to pull away, I just go real cold on them so when they ask what is wrong I just come at them with the realness once again..

HER: What's wrong?
ME: Nothing at all. I thought you were more mature than to play games with me. Honestly if you cant chill out and have a good time with me, then perhaps it's best if you go home right now.

9 times out of 10 they cut the BS and get with the program

I don't tolerate mind-fukks from these gals. Thats for you nice guys out there, who will keep agreeing with whatever she says, thinkin it will get you laid and then yall come here to post sh!t like "Why wont she call me?" or "SHould I text message her?"

Which leads me to the biggest problem on this board (aside from the KJing and compulsive mental masturbation) is that you guys are stuck in the girl's reality. You simply care too much about what impression you make. Obviously you want to put your best foot forward, but you will just fall flat if you walk on eggshells, trying to win her approval.

The essence of my style is that I am a selfish bastard living in my own world. My sense of self is so strong that the girl cannot help getting sucked into my frame of mind.

This is why I can get away with doing unorthodox things that would make you Pook-worshippers cringe (Buying condoms, farting, giving her noogies) I dont do any of these things as techniques per se...I simply do what I feel like doing! Sometimes I will meet a gal who inspires me to be more romantic and gentlemanly, but even this special woman must earn her place in my heart.

Perhaps this post is totally useless to you. Maybe you think I am a totally immature.

Can you guess how much I care?

 

[Player_Supreme]

Welcome to the hateration club. So this is why your ebox is full kid. I've been there as you well know.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

What is a noogie? Is that snot?

 

[Don Ronny]

Noogie = when you burn someone's scalp with rapid friction from the knuckle of your middle finger.

 

[biker_gixxer]

I have the same outlook when it comes to women bro. It's all about the DGAF method...

 

[Don Ronny]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Welcome to the hateration club. So this is why your ebox is full kid.

I just deleted all of the crap in my box. Holla!

 

[Nightbreed]

Don Ronny you rock. Three things I have solidified as part of myself since finding by chance (or rather skill, because I wanted to better and looking) this community...

ONE: There's nothing I can't handle!
TWO: You are a guest in my reality!
THREE: I don't give a **** about approval!

 

[Caveman]

Originally posted by Nightbreed

TWO: You are a guest in my reality!

Brilliant! This I must remember

 

[Nightbreed]

If you remember, then you will be not just Caveman but...

CAPTAIN CAVEMAN!

(anyone remember that cartoon by the way?)

 

[Caveman]

Originally posted by Nightbreed
If you remember, then you will be not just Caveman but...

CAPTAIN CAVEMAN!

(anyone remember that cartoon by the way?)

Don't wanna hijack this thread but yeah.. cpt caveman is cool

 

[Jon E]

Donny,
I agree with you fundamentally, but you are taking the hardline approach. Yes you need to be the selector, yes you need to bring her into your reality, no you dont need her approval etc etc.

However, when you reach a high enough "alpha male status" (I dont like using that term but its the best description of an attractive guy and Im not sure that you truly understand what it means to be an "alpha".) your character and attitude dont have to be as harsh and selfish as what you described.

When you build the right "frame" you dont need an attitude of "I dont give a ****". When you reach a "high status" and have that attitude, women will feel rejected by you, and the only reason that you can get away with it now is because of your low status and as you know women arent automatically drawn to you.

When you reach a satisfactory alpha level, women are automatically interested in everything about you and you can still care about where they want to go, do, feel etc and still garner their utmost respect because you are truly an attractive alpha male. There is no need to be a selfish bastard anymore, you can be a genuine, caring, friendly, person and still have women flock to you. You wont experience them playing mind games or giving you resistance anymore because they are genuinely attracted and want to be with you.

Do you see the difference in this approach and yours? Do you see what your approach says about your character, self esteem and self image? You really need to stop and reevaluate the messages that your sending about yourself with this attitude.

 

[WaterTiger]

I remember it! The short, fat, very hairy guy with 2 or 3 lovely girls helping him thwart evil.

Don Ronny~
Great post.

 

[comic_relief]

Don Ronny on my PM buddy list

I am extremely liking your posts. This is an excellent method to follow. Keep up the good posting.

Sooner or later the golden age will return

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by Nightbreed

ONE: There's nothing I can't handle!
TWO: You are a guest in my reality!
THREE: I don't give a **** about approval!

Amen brotha...

 

[slipstreamer83]

The power of DGAF lies on the fact that you don´t need any woman to be all right, you feel like a complete person already. This fact is enough challenge for her to feel attracted.

Loving your posts, Don Ronny. Keep ´em coming!!!!

 

[thecraftylefty]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
This is why I can get away with doing unorthodox things that would make you Pook-worshippers cringe

Believe it or not Don Ronny, your "method" is actually closer to Pook's perspective than you think. You just word your ideas a little harsher.

thecraftylefty

 

[Don Ronny]

BUMP

You guys need a reality check!

 

[AA423]

wow, that is some good stuff, and so true. Im gona hvae to try some of this.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
Noogie = when you burn someone's scalp with rapid friction from the knuckle of your middle finger.

There's the backburn and thighbuster as well... I prefer using all four knuckles though, creates a nice tickle rhythm Can't forget the nose burmps, the bullups, the made ya looks, and the ear flicks. Golden moves.

I know what your saying. Called honesty in my books though. Yeah nicey nicey word. You said Gods honest truth, so of course there's still flesh beneath that rock. LOL, been a while since you posted this though, perhaps the cracks have hardened over?

Jon E and the crafty lefty are being searched at the moment though. Their games are more in sunch with mine. I stray from the ******* maneuvres, I'm a social businessman, I can't afford to lose the respect of the elders and the children.

Peace

 

[theSpeculator]

I have a friend that says the exact same Caveman about not giving a damn that Don Ronny is talking about. He even knows some of the things that is preached here. I don't know where he got it from but I don't think it's from sosuave. And he likes to talk about how good his game all the time. But in reality he has no game. Like today, I keep pressuring him to go talk to this chinese girl in our class that he likes. But he keeps chickening out. Truth is my friend likes to talk the talk but can't do the walk.

Jon E got a point. When you reach the high status point you do not feel the need to be domineering. You can be nice, genuine, friendly etc and girls will be attracted to you. It's only the guys with low status that are domineering b/c they got no power in society so they take it out on women. 'nuff said.