"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The desire to win!

Sammo

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You can read all the **** in the world, you can read the bible over and over again but it's gonna do **** all unless you have a desire to win.

It all comes down to getting **** done, your at point A and you want to get to point B, you are never going to get to point B unless you have a burning desire in the bottom of your heart to get there. You have to become completely obsessed with the idea of having it, it's like you can't live with out it.

You KNOW in the bottom of your heart you can do it but you DONT, you know its in your capability yet you dont do it. You think about it, you imagine what it would be like, yet you never put it in to reality.

You judge YOURSELF by what you KNOW your capable of, thus putting yourself above everyone but THE WORLD judges you by what you have ALL READY DONE. I know i can be a millionare if i put in the effort, i know i can be one of the most charming men in the world, i KNOW i can be happy and succesfull yet for some ****ed up reason i stop, noone else is doing it so why should i? Don't restrict yourself by doing what other people are doing, you know you can do something before everyone else, thats how people get the things they want.

1. FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT.
2. FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET IT.
3. BECOME COMPLETELY OBSESSED WITH THE IDEA OF HAVING IT!
4. ACT!

The simple formula for success in life, lets use it and see if it works. Bob, is overweight and he feels insecure about this, he would really like to be more attractive to women and decides to give Sammo's simple formula a try.

Step Number One: FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT

Bob would like to be a more attractive person so he doesn't feel so bad about his appearance. He looks at the mirror and considers what things he could do to improve his looks. He could get in shape, he could get a tan and he could get some clothes that fit him. Any person that has a good body, has good coloured skin and has good fashion sence is ussually quite attractive to women, even with an ugly face puts them on a 6/10 at least.

Step number Two: FIGURE OUT HOW TO GET IT

Bob does research on the internet and finds out what his diet should consist of and what cardio exercises he should to do to lose his fat. He then finds out what is necessary to build muscle and WRITES IT ALL DOWN. He then looks into getting some tanning oil, if that doesnt work he looks into going to a solarium and looks at his skin type and what he has to do to get a tan. He then looks in magazines and around the shopping malls and see what guys are wearing now a days and what looks good and starts to buy those kind of clothes.

Step number Three: BECOME COMPLETELY OBSESSED WITH THE IDEA OF HAVING IT!

Bob looks around at his attractive friends, looks at TV and how good looking guys get all the attention, he looks around and begins to think he can't live with out it, he gets depressed, this depression does 1 of 2 things. 1. Puts him into a depression and thinks his a pile of ****, 2. The depression turns into motivation to carry on and change himself.

Step number Four: ACT!!!

Bob writes down what he has to do, and he does it.


Simple as that ****ers, don't make things more complicated then they need to be.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LikRetsam

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You just need the motivation. I know where I am. I know where I should be. Yet, no one has given me reason to get there.

No, not DJing.

Lik
 

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Originally posted by jiza101
good post !
i have tried to lose these extra 5 kilos, for years, everytime i stop and give in to fatty food like chips..

so true and then you dont think it will hurt, the trouble is that with everything it takes a long time to show results, I mean i do a hell of a lot of cardio sport & swimmming in addition to working out, and my weight wontchange wheteher i eat or not, whetehr i eat fatty foods or not
 
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