"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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check out THE ELEVATOR SCENE on youtube
see how MATT DAMON ****yfunnies the sexy shring it s all about C/F HUMOR and NEGGING
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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In other words, I should go to youtube, watch Matt Damon's SCRIPTED ****y funny routine on the hot shrink that's designed to react a certain way, and hope the same outcome happens in my life after I pull the same stunt on some girl who'll probably end up laughing. I think we're better off studying actual examples, not movies.
 

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sosocool said:
In other words, I should go to youtube, watch Matt Damon's SCRIPTED ****y funny routine on the hot shrink that's designed to react a certain way, and hope the same outcome happens in my life after I pull the same stunt on some girl who'll probably end up laughing. I think we're better off studying actual examples, not movies.
He's not saying use the exact same lines. He's using it as inspiration. It's like watching a James Bond film. You probably wont go out and talk like Connery, but you might carry over the same confidence level.

BTW, great movie Alpha.
 

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rite he negs her a couple of times
" i know who you are ! those guys have to use their revolver service and come to see you before they go to pieces "

he intimates that those guys are just weaklings like the rest and are not different from the rest and this woman is their mom !! or kind of


" this floor is full of f ..... nuts so it s the rite floor for you !! another neg


STATUS
i am a cop

there s a bit of interaction between them two she gives as much as she takes so there s rapport


DRESSING
he s dressed neatly nothing too fancy though
i think guys should dress neatly in the same way clean jumpere ( a nice one preferrably ) a yellow or green shirt black trousers and shoes like STYLE on the KIMMEL show


so again humor status ****iness negging and there you are

so next time u r in an elevator and there s a pretty girl there how to script your convo with her ? ANY IDEA ( cos i believe in scripted lines )
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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