"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Delayed Reaction of your Health

bigneil

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One of the most important things to observe in a diet or workout regimen is the concept of delayed reaction.

Here is how the scenario will play itself out:

1) Get dumped.
2) Get fired up and start working out.
3) Be totally depressed and single yet improving.
4) Find someone you really like as you cross the improved threshold.
5) Be totally happy and dating yet declining.
6) Repeat.

Are you in step 5 now? Stay in step 2 or face step 3.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lockout

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i made it a habit to go to the gym to shower - if i miss workouts i start to stink
 

Blackmm

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lockout said:
i made it a habit to go to the gym to shower - if i miss workouts i start to stink
I have a similar philosophy that I had to earn my shower, meaning that I Didn't deserve a shower unless I was dripping with sweat from a good workout.
 

Blue Phoenix

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Working out is really a chore! But without it I feel weak and get tired easily. It also impacts my self steem.

I´ve been doing it for more than 5 years, if I´m not mistaken. It´s good to see the chicks too, lol. It´s funny how they wear make up and go all fashionable to the gym, even there they compete with each other! :rolleyes:

What annoys me is the girls that I often hook up with, after some years start to put on weight. It has happened with at least 3 of them. I see it as a lack of self-care,...
 

SamTheHobit

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Blackmm said:
I have a similar philosophy that I had to earn my shower, meaning that I Didn't deserve a shower unless I was dripping with sweat from a good workout.
lol xD +1
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Blue Phoenix said:
What annoys me is the girls that I often hook up with, after some years start to put on weight. It has happened with at least 3 of them. I see it as a lack of self-care,...
I see it a sign of comfort in a relationship, not necessarily a lack of care, but then I don't mind slightly chubby chicks, so I wouldn't complain.
 
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