"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The debate on swimming, discuss!

Kev07

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benefits and cons of swimming as cardio workout, towards someone who wants to bulk vrs get lean/toned.

I would assume that swimming is not ideal for bulking.


but what about for those who want to cut off that extra fat around their body? Do you think swimming would be more effective than jogging? (of course with weightlifting involved in both, because no weightlifting= bad for any goals)

Right now i'm swimming 25 laps a day+other random stuff in the pool, messing around, each lap i would guess to be about 50-75 meters.

I'm not so sure what my post is about, but throw in your thoughts on swimming!:whistle:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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blinkwatt

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If you wanna lose weight focus on your diet,cardio and exercise can only help you. It will take several months if you wanna lose alot of fat just through dieting,but once you start to notice it,it doesn't slow down. It's been 4 hard months of eating super healthy w/o a single 'cheat' meal and it's paying off,I now have veins starting to pop out in my shoulders and chest when I work out and am sub 9% bodyfat.

This guy at work is trying to get as lean as possible for summer and damn is his hard work paying off. He's eating fruits,salads and chicken only(been eating this way for a year now) and doing two-a-days at the gym,swimming in the morning and running at night and damn it's paying off,he's cut like a mofo. He isn't focused on gaining any muscle though,so that's something to consider.
 

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Kev07 said:
benefits and cons of swimming as cardio workout, towards someone who wants to bulk vrs get lean/toned.

I would assume that swimming is not ideal for bulking.


but what about for those who want to cut off that extra fat around their body? Do you think swimming would be more effective than jogging? (of course with weightlifting involved in both, because no weightlifting= bad for any goals)

Right now i'm swimming 25 laps a day+other random stuff in the pool, messing around, each lap i would guess to be about 50-75 meters.

I'm not so sure what my post is about, but throw in your thoughts on swimming!:whistle:
Swimming, as any other physical activity, burns calories. Depending on your total calorie intake vs. calorie expenditure, you might lose weight.

If you want a metabolic shift (less fat, more muscles, same weight), weightlifting is the better alternative.

Of course, your diet counts when it comes down to fat.

-Mehdi.
 

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My new regime for getting cut involves cross training to the max. I'm constantly fooling my body.

I've been lifting for 13 years now and this is really shocking it into new growth and dropping some stubborn fat.

A quick sample of a current week.

Lifting 3 days a week, full body workouts. One day a 5 rep per set workout (only 1-3 sets per bodypart). Another day a 10 rep workout (using different equipment, or free weights than the 5 rep and the same # of sets per body part. The third day is a 15 rep day using yet again something different equipment wise.

I do track my weights though so I can get an idea of what I should be lifting and upping it from time to time.

Then I do HIIT cardio on the treadmill 2-3 days a week, followed by a longer run or race on the weekend.

One day a week I also try to get some swimming in. I might use the rowing machine.

I'll start playing tennis again here soon.

The obvious note is, it may be tough to gain alot of new mass but i'm more focused on getting cut.

I'm eating healthy for other reasons too, one mainly to lose weight but also completely get over the heartburn i've had off and on for a while. Eating small frequent meals helps, stops the stomach growling and acid production. Going off coffee was the other big step.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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