theSpeculator
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There are many systems and methods out there in the marketplace that claim to teach you how to be more successful with women. But what I have found, after spending years researching this topic, is that there is far, far too much emphasis on "techniques" and "lines" and "acting".
There are many problems with that approach. First of all, it does not feel natural. And although every man wants success with women, he also wants to feel he is dealing with a human being, not a robot who can be programmed to do his bidding.
Second of all, it requires memorization. You have to remember a line, how it's supposed to be delivered, and when you are suddenly in front of a woman, you can easily freeze up and FORGET what to do.
Also, tons and tons and tons of men are shy around women, and so no matter how good a "technique" is, the paralyzing fear of shyness will prevent a shy man from carrying out the "technique".
I can state all the above because I encountered those problems myself. It took years for me to realize that the most powerful resource for success with women rests not in your isolated technique or your individual "lines", but in YOU.
Yes YOU. Who YOU are. Most people don't realize who they truly are. You are not your job. You are not your height. You are not your weight. You are not your past history.
I am not being cheesy here. Do you really believe that you are just those things above?
Or is your greatest individuality, your truest identity, all the TRILLIONS of thoughts and dreams and ideas that are constantly flowing through your MIND? Okay, it might sound like we're heading into THE MATRIX land here, but I was on to this WAAYYYYYYYYYYY back. (really!)
You see, you are so much, much, much more than what you have been conditioned to believe about yourself. Now what does all this have to do with being successful with women?
The connection is that your THOUGHTS are the truest identification of yourself, and your future.
And WOMEN KNOW THIS on a very INTUITIVE LEVEL. They can SENSE your beliefs about yourself, through the most subtle cues in your movements and voice tone, etc.
Women are very turned on by men who have the right ATTITUDE, for REAL.
And NO ONE can control YOUR THOUGHTS or YOUR ATTITUDE.
Your thoughts, your emotions, are UP TO YOU. No one ever said it's easy, but it's TOTAL DEMOCRACY when it comes to having your own thoughts. No one is forcing you to think like a pathetic person.
In my book, I go into excruciating detail about what kind of person you must be, regarding your behaviors, particularly your emotional strength, in order to attract women.
I would like to give you a glimpse into the type of MAN who is the ULTIMATE ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN. How do you define this type of MAN?
LARGER THAN LIFE.
In those three words, lies massive significance. Fully absorbing impact of those three words could take hours, literally.
To truly be larger than life means that first and foremost, you take that step in your MIND.
There are many problems with that approach. First of all, it does not feel natural. And although every man wants success with women, he also wants to feel he is dealing with a human being, not a robot who can be programmed to do his bidding.
Second of all, it requires memorization. You have to remember a line, how it's supposed to be delivered, and when you are suddenly in front of a woman, you can easily freeze up and FORGET what to do.
Also, tons and tons and tons of men are shy around women, and so no matter how good a "technique" is, the paralyzing fear of shyness will prevent a shy man from carrying out the "technique".
I can state all the above because I encountered those problems myself. It took years for me to realize that the most powerful resource for success with women rests not in your isolated technique or your individual "lines", but in YOU.
Yes YOU. Who YOU are. Most people don't realize who they truly are. You are not your job. You are not your height. You are not your weight. You are not your past history.
I am not being cheesy here. Do you really believe that you are just those things above?
Or is your greatest individuality, your truest identity, all the TRILLIONS of thoughts and dreams and ideas that are constantly flowing through your MIND? Okay, it might sound like we're heading into THE MATRIX land here, but I was on to this WAAYYYYYYYYYYY back. (really!)
You see, you are so much, much, much more than what you have been conditioned to believe about yourself. Now what does all this have to do with being successful with women?
The connection is that your THOUGHTS are the truest identification of yourself, and your future.
And WOMEN KNOW THIS on a very INTUITIVE LEVEL. They can SENSE your beliefs about yourself, through the most subtle cues in your movements and voice tone, etc.
Women are very turned on by men who have the right ATTITUDE, for REAL.
And NO ONE can control YOUR THOUGHTS or YOUR ATTITUDE.
Your thoughts, your emotions, are UP TO YOU. No one ever said it's easy, but it's TOTAL DEMOCRACY when it comes to having your own thoughts. No one is forcing you to think like a pathetic person.
In my book, I go into excruciating detail about what kind of person you must be, regarding your behaviors, particularly your emotional strength, in order to attract women.
I would like to give you a glimpse into the type of MAN who is the ULTIMATE ATTRACTION FOR WOMEN. How do you define this type of MAN?
LARGER THAN LIFE.
In those three words, lies massive significance. Fully absorbing impact of those three words could take hours, literally.
To truly be larger than life means that first and foremost, you take that step in your MIND.