"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The dating game is similar to patriarchal capitalism

Dhoulmagus

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I think some guys are just born with a mystic aroma that only girls can sense. They can be hot or ugly lol, but girls just flock to him like money to an aristocrat. He doesn't have to put much effort in to girls. The lower caste struggles with females and have to manage on their once every three months sex or have to make it a full time job to game women. This redpill, alpha/beta, gaming, and even this site are our lingo. The upper caste are probably unaware of these or consider this utter nonsense.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mangotot

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noobolgy said:
You can be poor and still get laid. They even buy you stuff, and let you live with them. You still be a d!ck to.
Do you have to behave like a 'jerk' for that to happen?
 

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Being a "jerk" to most women is simply you just having control over yourself, and doing what YOU want to do. So yes, to get a women like that you will need to be in 100% control of yourself, while also being unattached to the outcome.

The issue is you would have to be 100% congruent in this. If just a small tiny portion of you is faking it, it will be sensed and nothing will work.

In the end, the game is always going to come down to self control, and self improvement. If you lack in either of these areas, women aren't going to come as easily. Focus on yourself, start living, approach any women you find attractive, and let the universe do the rest.

Stay out of your head.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tictac said:
Women perceive you acting in your own best interest as 'being a jerk'.

You don't need to do anything more than that.
that is all people really, if you don't do something for then, you are a jerk, selfish, and other shaming to force you to do then something they want you to do who bring nothing to you
 

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Alvafe said:
that is all people really, if you don't do something for then, you are a jerk, selfish, and other shaming to force you to do then something they want you to do who bring nothing to you
Tictac said:
Women perceive you acting in your own best interest as 'being a jerk'.

You don't need to do anything more than that.
This is spot on guys !

One of the reasons I'm not with my ex anymore. Saying that I'm selfish and I don't give a sh!t. Now that's bullsh!t :)
 
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