You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chicago only counts the city, not the suburbs. Chicago is in cook but they don't count surrounding suburbs numbers. Only Los Angeles does for some reason. New York doesn't either
Los Angeles County has 100 cities in it
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Good discussion. Almost like females I don't even wann
I see what your getting at. On a per capita for big cities chicago was top in murder. What about Detroit?Los Angeles County has 100 cities in it
So them numbers combined from every city
List of cities in Los Angeles County, California - Wikipedia
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Detroit has always been hood, I don't even know to be honest I just mostly see stuff from my city or other big cities. I've been to the D a few times it a different animal in terms of how it looks and feels. Chicago has hoods but they don't look as run down as detriot. It use to be like that in some parts but they gentrified those neighborhoods decades ago. Detroit has an eerie vibe for sure.
| 1993 | 579 |
| 1994 | 541 |
| 1995 | 475 |
| 1996 | 428 |
| 1997 | 469 |
| 1998 | 430 |
| 1999 | 415 |
| 2000 | 396 |
| 2001 | 395 |
| 2002 | 402 |
The big cities have places to rest your head those medium small cities are a different terrain
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lol bro gtfo, US literally used dirty bombs on Iraq just to hurt the people. More radiation than Hiroshima and Nagasaki, very high birth defects. Saddest **** in the world. Just saw this **** td actually
Oh, yeah, Gary the "ghost town".
See, most of us never heard of this. They cleaned up the stats to make it like some USA cities are more dangerous.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Brooooo, they killed like 8 million people in Iraq, 500,000 of whom were children.
The thing with Chicago is its only a few areas that are driving the violence up like it has the last 10 years. To me that's crazy cause the rest of the city is Middle class or rich, yuppie hipster neighborhoods.
Oak Park has some million-dollar homes but then suddenly it just cuts off randomly and there’s an area that is super ****ty. Couldn’t tell you where exactly but knew a few people who lived up there and that’s what they all said. Plus my dad knows like every street in Chicago lol and he said the same thing too. But yeah, stuff has changed.
Oak park borders the west side its like night and day
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.