"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Dark Triad theory of dating: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, Psychopathy/Sociopathy

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Average height guys run the county jail while 6'+ guys run fortune 500 companies...... Time for a reality check my man....
Did you Google their unit size as well what's the correlation enlighten us?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LOL pls, blond men are loved everywhere in the western world. Dave Beckham? Chris Hemsworth?

What kinds of men do women like in your area then?
I'm from Chicago a big city and almost as diverse as New York. Yes there are women who like Hemsworth, but that's probably due to him being in shape and rich and a movie actor. Most women here like latino or mixed race men
 

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Women do not want blonde men atleast not where I'm from and Meeks is not handsome he looks like a pitbull. If he didnt have light eyes he'd be a nobody but I ain't hating he's doing what presented itself to him
Lol at the guys choosing what counts as attractive for females based on their male pov. "If only he didn't have his eyes..." even were it true, we can't just remove an attractive feature and then call him ugly lmao. Imagine someone saying "take away his legs and you'll see that he's really short"!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm sure all of us at some point in our lives have heard "Women want badboys", "just be c0cky and funny", "just thugmaxxx".....

....and the biggest cope "Just be confident, bro".... what a crock of shlt.....

Guys are deluding themselves into thinking that personality and game is what attracts women - and there's a trend where guys think that adopting narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy/sociopathy into their game is going to get results.......

sorry but:

"There is no machiavellianism for your height."
- IncelTV

The truth is that all the badboy types exhibit narcissism, machiavellianism and psychopathy/sociopathy...but women are only attracted to the goodlooking badboys...... they couldn't give a fvck about the ugly badboy types anymore than they would give a fvck about the ugly incels.....


For example: Bernie Madoff possesses the Dark Triad personalities, but women aren't attracted to him......because he's not goodlooking.....

Another Example: Elliot Roger possesses the Dark Triad personalities, but women didn't give a fvck about him because he was short and ugly....

Another Example: Jeremy Meeks possesses the Dark Triad personalities and women worship him.....because he's good looking.....

Forget about game.....game is bullshlt...... when it comes to attracting women it's: Face, Physique, height

IncelTV just did a masterful job explaining in this truly brutal and entertaining video.......

So Meeks, I guess
Neither city has been worse than Chicago so I don't see how
Back in the 90's when Chicago had a 900 a year Murder rate, NYC and L.A. were both over 2,000 kills for the year.

There are some smaller cities and areas that are much more dangerous than all three of those big Cities.

Look up Camden, NJ. Kill rate of approximately 1 per 100 people every year.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I notice a lot of dudes are getting in to this darkness shadow world shadow psychology mindset. I think some of it has to do with their anger and resentment with women. They start seeking out "machivellian" techniques to "game women" its really not that hard that you would have to employ these type of techniques
 

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Los Angeles never did they had over 1000. Chicago is the smaller city in the 90s New York had 8 million people roughly Los Angeles nearly 4 million Chicago roughly 3 million

The article says "In 1992 a record was set for the number of homicides in Los Angeles County: 2,589. ". Yeah in the 90's when I was in the chi, we had 900 murders plus a year for a minute, but LA and NYC had 2,000 per year during those times.

NYC 2200+ murders 90's. https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 2000+ murders from 1970-2000 NYC: https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 1500-2000 murders 80's and 90's LA: http://www.publichealth.lacounty.gov/ivpp/injury_topics/GangAwarenessPrevention/Gang Homicide Chart Apr 21 2011 chart.pdf

The best place to look is FBI crime stats.

The thing about L.A. was the population was very similar to chicago, yet during those New Jack 90's the murder rate was almost double. And NYC was 2-3x larger population, so the kill rate was lower.
 

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I notice a lot of dudes are getting in to this darkness shadow world shadow psychology mindset. I think some of it has to do with their anger and resentment with women. They start seeking out "machivellian" techniques to "game women" its really not that hard that you would have to employ these type of techniques
ANger and resentment toward women is a fail. Complaining about women is a fail. Modelling your life after women like is a fail.. What helps is doing whatever works for YOU.

Also hanging with a male friend who already has success or social pull will get you "in", much better and easier than you can by yourself.
 

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The article says "In 1992 a record was set for the number of homicides in Los Angeles County: 2,589. ". Yeah in the 90's when I was in the chi, we had 900 murders plus a year for a minute, but LA and NYC had 2,000 per year during those times.

NYC 2200+ murders 90's. https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 2000+ murders from 1970-2000 NYC: https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 1500-2000 murders 80's and 90's LA: http://www.publichealth.lacounty.gov/ivpp/injury_topics/GangAwarenessPrevention/Gang Homicide Chart Apr 21 2011 chart.pdf

The best place to look is FBI crime stats.

The thing about L.A. was the population was very similar to chicago, yet during those New Jack 90's the murder rate was almost double. And NYC was 2-3x larger population, so the kill rate was lower.
Bruh you really looked that all up lol
 

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The article says "In 1992 a record was set for the number of homicides in Los Angeles County: 2,589. ". Yeah in the 90's when I was in the chi, we had 900 murders plus a year for a minute, but LA and NYC had 2,000 per year during those times.

NYC 2200+ murders 90's. https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 2000+ murders from 1970-2000 NYC: https://www.newyorker.com/books/double-take/new-york-city-crime-in-the-nineties

Table showing 1500-2000 murders 80's and 90's LA: http://www.publichealth.lacounty.gov/ivpp/injury_topics/GangAwarenessPrevention/Gang Homicide Chart Apr 21 2011 chart.pdf

The best place to look is FBI crime stats.

The thing about L.A. was the population was very similar to chicago, yet during those New Jack 90's the murder rate was almost double. And NYC was 2-3x larger population, so the kill rate was lower.
Los Angeles clunty5 is more than Los Angeles it includes the surrounding suburbs like Compton and long Beach and many other suburbs crime rates. The city of Los Angeles alone not close to that number my dude and new york had triple the population than Chicago and Los Angeles
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bruh you really looked that all up lol
I remember, cause i was around during the "New Jack 90's".. So we had like 900 per year for a minute, NYC was double that, and when LA peaked my interest they was at 2000 or so. I remember those numbers. But there was smaller areas that was way more deadly, deadlier than being in Iraq or Afganistan by far. Like I said, I worked in Jersey and Camden NJ was losing 1 person per 100 due to murder, so I didn't drive thru there.
 

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I remember, cause i was around during the "New Jack 90's".. So we had like 900 per year for a minute, NYC was double that, and when LA peaked my interest they was at 2000 or so. I remember those numbers. But there was smaller areas that was way more deadly, deadlier than being in Iraq or Afganistan by far. Like I said, I worked in Jersey and Camden NJ was losing 1 person per 100 due to murder, so I didn't drive thru there.
The 90s were bad almost all over, per capita Chicago was higher than NY even in the 90s
 

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Los Angeles clunty5 is more than Los Angeles it includes the surrounding suburbs like Compton and long Beach and many other suburbs crime rates. The city of Los Angeles alone not close to that number my dude and new york had triple the population than Chicago and Los Angeles
I'm sure in most of the stats they include local burbs, but who knows, the numbers are high as hell. And if you look at those LA murder stats they seperated out gang murders, for a few years the gang murders in LA overtook overall murders in chicago, in that time the LA gangs were on more stupid shyt than the chicago gangs. but obviously chilled out or something.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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