The dark side of social proof?

[WatchMeWalk]

I've recently experienced a phenomena that is disturbing to me. I would meet a girl, who happens to have a BF, and she would show no IL during initial contact. Say her BF happens to be a friend of mine and he enjoys a certain degree of popularity. When the aforementioned HB discovers later that I'm his friend, she acts interested IN ME. I've observed this in two seperate occaisions. My instinct tells me to keep away from h0s like these since they have no scruples to break up friendships IN ADDITION to cheating.
What is up with this?

 

[trajhenkhet]

If you find it uncomfortable, tell her to knock it off. Probably trying to figure out the grade of her manmeat.

 

[AnOlderMan]

She's doing this to make him jealous.

 

[WatchMeWalk]

Originally posted by AnOlderMan
She's doing this to make him jealous.

That would make sense if he was around.

 

[trajhenkhet]

not neccesairly. If she only did it when he was around then you would know immediately what was going down. This way she baits you enough so that she can test her hombre. Try hitting on her and see what happens. She'll give you a negative response. If not a flat turn down.

 

[Igor]

Originally posted by trajhenkhet
Try hitting on her and see what happens.

Don't try this, she might tell your buddy.

She is most definitely doing this to make him jealous. Since your friend is popular, he probably always has a few women chasing him. SO she's using you to show him that he's replacible, and worse, that she might even leave with his friends. Kind of evil, now that I think about it...
Don't let her use you.