"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Dark Knight Joker

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I've been hearing a lot of girls who have told me that they found the Joker from the Dark Knight sexy. Not hot or handsome but sexy. Sexiness has really nothing to do with looks. A lot of them thought it was weird that they thought he was sexy. A couple of girls I heard said that they couldn't help but be attracted to him even and thought they were weird because they were attracted to him. And I mean this guy is crazy and not physically attractive. But like this board has been saying over and over you cannot control who you are attracted to you just are. Any guy can create attraction. So I went and asked a few girls why they liked him and this was what I was hearing. The joker was confident, charming, had a lot of charisma, didn't care what people thought of him, rebelious, mysterious, interesting, funny, etc. These are all traits that every pua should have. I'm not saying looks don't matter they do to a certain point but you don't have to have them. I've also heard similar things about Bill Clinton. What are your guys thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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just bcoz hes a movie character

if there was an actually person who behaved like that, I don't think many chicks would find it 'sexy'

but I guess that whole 'I don't give a F***' attitude can be very appealing
 

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You also have to consider that the joker was played by Kieth Ledger, most girls find him hot. Also Charlie Manson was a PUA.
 
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No,this just proves that women are idiots and fall for the same crap over and over again.
 

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I've heard the same thing.

The Joker is really menacing, unpredictable, and uncontrollable. Plus his self-confidence is off the charts, obviously. Imagine a girl pulling a sh!t test on the fvcking Joker.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Forty0ztoFreedom said:
I've heard the same thing.

The Joker is really menacing, unpredictable, and uncontrollable. Plus his self-confidence is off the charts, obviously. Imagine a girl pulling a sh!t test on the fvcking Joker.

I would like to the result of that.
 

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These woman just have a fantasy for clowns...... i believe this occurs when they are exposed to one too many McDonalds happy meals as children. That Ronald sure has an awful lot to answer for...
 

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Insanity is attractive, in the same way Ignorance is Bliss.
 

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So I went and asked a few girls why they liked him and this was what I was hearing. The joker was confident, charming, had a lot of charisma, didn't care what people thought of him, rebelious, mysterious, interesting, funny, etc....

I've also heard similar things about Bill Clinton.
Really? Bill Clinton thinks the Joker is sexy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Insanity is attractive, in the same way Ignorance is Bliss.
I have to give you props for that its a really cool comment almost worthy of a quote in my book
 

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Do I really look like a guy with a plan? Do you know what I am? I'm a dog chasing cars. I wouldn't know what to do with one if caught one. You know I just do things. The mob has plans, cop's has plans, gordan's got plans. .. they're schemers.. schemers trying to control there little worlds.. I'm not a schemer. I try to show the schemers how pathetic their attempts to control things really are....
This is what I call an essential part of the DJ mindset.
 

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The Sperminator said:
I've been hearing a lot of girls who have told me that they found the Joker from the Dark Knight sexy. Not hot or handsome but sexy. Sexiness has really nothing to do with looks. A lot of them thought it was weird that they thought he was sexy. A couple of girls I heard said that they couldn't help but be attracted to him even and thought they were weird because they were attracted to him. And I mean this guy is crazy and not physically attractive. But like this board has been saying over and over you cannot control who you are attracted to you just are. Any guy can create attraction. So I went and asked a few girls why they liked him and this was what I was hearing. The joker was confident, charming, had a lot of charisma, didn't care what people thought of him, rebelious, mysterious, interesting, funny, etc. These are all traits that every pua should have. I'm not saying looks don't matter they do to a certain point but you don't have to have them. I've also heard similar things about Bill Clinton. What are your guys thoughts?
My thoughts?

I agree 100% with you. Totally.
 
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