Bethatsocialguy
Don Juan
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You guys have probably heard that you should not put a girl on a pedestal. Maybe you don´t know exactly why. Here is why:
1. Creating a situation where the girl is socially above you will create a dynamic where you will always be chasing to please her.
2. She won´t respect you as she wants to feel that she has won the prize in her partner, not the other way round
3. Women date up, men don´t. Hence male celebrities can date a girl who works in McDonalds if she is bad enough. Women generally wouldnt.
4. You are under-valueing yourself from the beginning. Why should she go for you if you don´t even know value yourself correctly?
5. It makes your life more difficult. Always chasing. Using your time, attention, money etc etc to get to "her level". You are basically telling her you are not good enough for her yet.
1. Creating a situation where the girl is socially above you will create a dynamic where you will always be chasing to please her.
2. She won´t respect you as she wants to feel that she has won the prize in her partner, not the other way round
3. Women date up, men don´t. Hence male celebrities can date a girl who works in McDonalds if she is bad enough. Women generally wouldnt.
4. You are under-valueing yourself from the beginning. Why should she go for you if you don´t even know value yourself correctly?
5. It makes your life more difficult. Always chasing. Using your time, attention, money etc etc to get to "her level". You are basically telling her you are not good enough for her yet.