"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The dangers and potential destructiveness of anti-feminism

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Originally posted by BlackJackal
Women/people like that need a hug.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
It looks like the feminist have taken down so suave they have us so angry and bitter......
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Well...I think sosuave can be reclaimed if everyone does what they can to discourage the negativity. One thing is for certain, though...if things continue on as they have been it's going to be of no use to anyone. Everyone who wants to see things improve should make the effort to post the kind of stuff that used to be posted here...positive, encouraging threads that are useful and teach TRUE "DJ Principles" and not the nonsense we've all been seeing so much of.
 
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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
It looks like the feminist have taken down so suave they have us so angry and bitter......
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What? Angry and bitter? Definitely not man. And I'm no feminist.

I'm perplexed because I believe it is a DJ trait to have control over your emotions. Plus if you're a professional athlete and you're on the losing end, you don't blame your opponent, you blame yourself. You don't get angry at your opponent, you get angry at yourself. What's so hard to understand about this and apply it to relationships?

To those of you that do not agree with Wyldfire's views or opinions, put forward your argument. I've put forward some of my arguments and she's responded to them in a civil and comprehensible manner. I don't think it's that hard to do if you've got some intelligence.
 
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Originally posted by JonJack
What? Angry and bitter? Definitely not man. And I'm no feminist.

I'm perplexed because I believe it is a DJ trait to have control over your emotions. Plus if you're a professional athlete and you're on the losing end, you don't blame your opponent, you blame yourself. You don't get angry at your opponent, you get angry at yourself. What's so hard to understand about this and apply it to relationships?

To those of you that do not agree with Wyldfire's views or opinions, put forward your argument. I've put forward some of my arguments and she's responded to them in a civil and comprehensible manner. I don't think it's that hard to do if you've got some intelligence.
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No, it's not hard to do at all...and anyone who has given an on topic and serious post has gotten nothing but a considerate and polite response in return.

I think some of the responses we're seeing that make no sense and are emotional is the result of a lack of the ability to think and act independently by some of the guys here. They depend far too much on those talking points/rules. Because of all those "women are not logical", "don't listen to what women say, watch what they do" talking points, they lock themselves into these "rules" so tightly that they can't even notice the times when they really don't apply.

For starters...they shouldn't even be trying to apply any of the rules or tactics with me because I'm basically just one of the guys on here. I'm not looking for dates, I'm trying to offer input I feel can be helpful. All the posturing is a waste of time and effort better spent out trying to meet women who they might actually get a date with.

Okay, I'm going to stop there...
 
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