"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The dangerous/wild hair look.

sharpshooter

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There's a lot of people on this board that make it seem like you need a hairtcut every month or something. I've got a ****ing early 90's NO gel, NO mousse.. puff going on haha. Haven't had a haircut in 3 months, I just let it grow and puff it up. It's not messy, but it's not really too neat either, it's just really natural looking.

Gives off that vibrant and energetic look I guess. Get compliments everytime, even asked a couple of times if I was a model. I like it because it really makes me stand out. It's not really outrageous, just not a fancy new age cut..it's almost retro.

As long as you're dressed sharp and clean shaven, girls go wild when they see your hair is wild (not messy, but just wild ;)). Just try it. Like if you've got a real nice dress shirt with some khaki's or whatever, it gives off one hell of a look, far from stereotypical too. Some people just look a lot better with longer hair, especially if you don't have the biggest head out there. If you're not satisfied with your clean cut haircut, let it grow out for a couple of months and check it out.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dressing different/like a bad boy also works too. Long hair is a definite plus that I've found. Of course, you attract different girls with different looks. I can't get with a lot of "normal" girls because of the way I look, but a lot of them will swoon when they see me. I have the whole pierced-up, buffed out (I'm very cut), don't give a **** rocker look, and it works very very well for me. My looks and style themselves are giving me all the confidence I need.
 

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Who says to cut your hair every month? I cut mine every week! Like clockwork, every saturday. I like maintaining a consistent look.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DeathDealer

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I would change your hairstyle from time to time but not erratically. My default hairstyle is usually at most 1 inches, and occasionally I'll have it grow to a couple more inches then all of a sudden I shave it completely bald. I notice that girls tend to give me more respect if I have a bald head like I'm some criminal or soldier. Strange.

I wouldn't recommend the bald look to appear more macho unless you are good looking like... Tom Cruise..
 

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I used to have long shaggy hair that girls liked. Now im in the army and even the shortness works with girls. Just avoid the haircuts you woulda had as a youngster.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by dearsappho
Do girls like skinheads?
do they like skin heads? thats like asking fo they prefer loud guys to quite guys, each girl will have her own prefrence.

some will like it others wont.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girls prefer hair! You need the right shaped face for a skin head, and it helps if your tall, have dark hair, and a broad, muscular type body. Vin deisel or colin farel (cnt spell his name) spring to mind. Your hairline must be right for a skin head too. Nearly all the girls I talk to, i show them a old picture of me with a shaved head and every single 1 has said I look miles better with hair. 1 guy went "wow, what a diffrence hair makes". My face has changed alot since that photo but still, you get the point.

http://image.guardian.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/arts/2004/02/18/busted1a.jpg

Theres a guy in my college who gets stunning girls because his hair is like the guy in the left of that photo, and he isnt even gd looking realy. He just has a tan, clear skin, long hair, down to his nose, gd dress scence, and girls love him.


http://www.faceparty.com/member_zoo...mber_name=s0lid&img_id=9975241&acstr=Z1F24868

This is a pic of me, a few weeks ago. My hair is longer than this now and I get more looks off girls than ever.
 
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