"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Daddy's Girl

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The daddy's girl phenomenon is emblematic of a variety of dynamics at play in many women we encounter: entitlement, lack of appreciation of consequences of behavior, manipulation, and even the high rate of divorce.

My ex was a tough one, because she had all of the good qualities of women that get on well with their fathers and don't have obvious daddy issues - affectionate, sporty, communicative, career minded, and so forth. The darker side was only revealed through time once push came to shove.

Daddy's girls come in all sorts of variants. Some other examples or thoughts on the issue would be worthwhile to examine.

I've concluded that being compliant in these relationships leads to such a brutal and lifelong p'ssy whipping that it will affect a man for generations to come. The scars will be devastating for the man, his sons, and possibly even his grandsons.

Maybe these women are just perpetual adolescents and can't wait to stop pretending to be adults once they are married so they can go back to being spoiled teenagers again.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not all daddy's girls are bad, just the ones who had a fukked up relationship with their fathers.
 
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Not all daddy's girls are bad, just the ones who had a fukked up relationship with their fathers.
That's right. I think it's a matter of degree of closeness or type of relationship with the father. No doubt women want a fatherly type of man. But, I'm starting to think many want an AFC type of slavish partner, and some can't be broken from that deep desire.

The trick is to identify the tells before getting stuck in a miserable relationship and wind up castrated.

I once found the whole daddy's girl thing attractive and a relief from the feminine type of craziness with BPD chicks, high maintenance chicks, or just angry chicks that hate men. Now I see a wolf in sheep's clothing that is tough to spot right off the bat.

In some sense, the dad in my example was himself castrated by a demanding wife, and then unwittingly created the same type of woman in his daughter. What kind of man can't identify with his own son and instead spoils his daughter? An AFC one.
 
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