"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The CURSE OF THE ASIAN AMERCIAN MALE - Im A VIRGIN

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Lets settle this once and for all. I am Asian, and had WHITE girlfriends ALL MY LIFE (yeah, eat your heart up). They are HB7 up to HB8.5's. I am too modest to claim HB9 even though some consider them that, but I am not here to bullsh*t anyone else but to help out other men.

I am also 40 and have seen my share of discrimination from women - however, here are the things I have (some you don't have, some you CAN get it by believing in yourself) done to make my success in women:

1) I am 6'2" tall (no, you can't get this unfortunately)

2) I watch my weight, eat healthy, exercise self-discipline, and keep myself muscular (yes you can do this, don't start biatching)

3) I am educated with a Masters degree (yes, you can do it, don't start biatching)

4) I have wit and charm that can swipe any woman off her feet (yes, you can do it, don't start biatching)

5) I buy clothes that fits me, shoes that are modern, wear cologne, and have a sexy haircut to go with it (yes you can do it, don't start biatching)

6) I have a very friendly attitude, spiritually centered in caring about my own personality, values, traits, and morals; and not afraid to make strong eye contacts (yes you can do it, don't start biatching)

7) I exude massive amounts of self-confidence because I have learned to love myself and my previous 38 years of my life has been 50% of your poor-arse attitude right now being asian (yes you can do it, don't start biatching).

8) I have had careers that would make any women wet just to hear about it, and financially stable and responsible in my life (yes you can do it, don't start biatching).

It is not easy as a White Male - but you can use your perception of intellectual prowess as Asian Male are known to have to turn the table around. Women are very attracted to intellectual men - however you must have everything else in your essence as a man perfected, including what I listed above that you MUST get in your head every single moment and every single day to beat the competition.

With Respect,

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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about 1.3 billion asians here in China... all married to other Asians. Your problem is NORTH AMERICA. Why not come to China?
 

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I wouldn't say move to China, but keep trying harder. Oh yeah, my short 5ft 5 asian friend is dating a 8/10 blonde girl. Yeah it's really bad, but yall don't have it as bad as other minorities. Here's my totem pole of minorities when it comes to dating.

Hispanics
Asians depending on how they look
Indians
Blacks
 

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LiveFreeX said:
about 1.3 billion asians here in China... all married to other Asians. Your problem is NORTH AMERICA. Why not come to China?
The girls in China would want a local Asian not some Americanized Asian person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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