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The curse of beauty

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The curse of beauty


In various conversations, you will hear the words,

“Beautiful women get approached all the time”..

and especially by good looking men,

“Why are there always ugly men?”....

First off, I consider myself, and till last year, the last sentence was a usual gun in my convo arsenal.

Times change, people change, but that is not the subject.

still gotta thank my thirteen year old bro, for showing me the light...

So, back to issue,

Beautiful women...

She is like the sunshine in the surroundings...

She, is also human..

Guys are around, looking at her, dreaming of her...

Do they approach?

No..

Yes, no.

They are afraid, they are intimidated...

Its as if a rejection from a beautiful woman is worse than an average looking one.

Ah, there goes somebody..

He goes up to her..

Has he got the balls?

Usually no.

He has got nothing to loose.

What if?

He has got no so-called-image to hold on to, nor has he got an unshattered ego...

He has nothing to loose.

He goes up to this beauty, and starts talking.

The girl sees courage in that, other guys do not, they know it.

And in the end, everybody has some kind of personality, and this nonhandsome guy, has also got it.. Beauty sees this, she knows the handsome accross the bar has personality too, but she will not approach, and he too.. So, this guy talking to her, hell god, hehas courage.. Hmmm... He is a man... Good...

And other guys around wonder what the hell is going on...


Lets call the beauties hot women.

Hot women, usually have the ***** shield around them..

They have to...

To get rid of the guys who have nothing else to loose.

But this image sadly intimidates good looking guys also.. The goodlooking guys actually are also living the same problem..

It is harder for a goodlooking guy to approach a woman than an average.. This is another story, The curse of the handsome.

The hot woman, dances with her friend, some guys come, she, as so many other women, may or may not shoot him down,

The problem is, the silent scene in which the guy is shot down is seen by much more other guys, other than passing as unnoticed if she were average.

So guys will go, damn she is hot... Too hot, and cold...

Hot woman shot down one guy.. Average woman, shot down ten.. Noticed: hot woman’s kill...


The hot babe will be standing in the bar, and wondering why nobody approaches her?

Not the hunk on her left talking to that lowlife *****,

Not the handsome on her right talking to that ugly duck...

Another night alone.. As it has been a quite usual thing in the last years...

Damn she says, I should not be so picky, but what else is there left with so many not handsome guys coming to me...

why does not she approach?

Think of the fall in her price if she does... Whoaaaa... Did you see the babe went over to him... Cheap slut....

Now you will say,

“Come on they are like blood for mosquitoes”

No. Observe one day...

Its the girl who is better looking than average who is lik blood... The one who is the beauty has mosquitoes flying past her, dreaming of her.

Why did this topic arise in me?

It was on saturday, I was in Panama...

Sebastyne was there, extreme sexy outfit, as usual...

A friend of mine was there, one eighty really beautiful girl,

And a girl I hit on without success, half a year ago was there with her friend, one eighty five, very, very beautiful girl, clever, too.. And her friend, shorter, also one of the few babes in the bar...

A girl who had rude behaviour to me two years ago, and since a year has been checking me out, with me ignoring her... A girl which is said to make your life five years longer if you lay her.. Was there...

Sebastyne was with her friends all nite long.. Till someone asked her for a dance..

The friend only got hit by a spaniard, “You have beautiful eyes”.. bloody original...

The rude girl.. She is known to be coming and going alone, few coming up to her, but this time she sticked to one guy who approached her, was like ten years older, solarium, ad loosening his head, though, in my opinion was more of a man than most of the others, in the way he walked...

The third girl, the very beautiful one.. In my life, I have seen few such creatures to say the truth, even though we are talking about the most sexy/beautiful girls in the bar, this one stands out... I had talked to her half a year ago, when I was in the midst of a change.. Messed up... Saw her couple of times, me and her ignoring eachother... So on saturday, I went up to them and wanted to chat with her friend.. Suddenly I was interesting.. Suddenly I saw the loneliness in her eyes.. Here is another guy, who can easily hit on her, who actually had proven his guts, and wit in a strange way some time ago, the strangeness was offending her at the time, suddenly it was ok... I could see the jealousy, I could see the why not me look.. I could see the I want the attention for one behaviour.. It was so clear in front of me.. It was there... For the first time I was hitting on the less beautiful, and coincidentially knowing the other one, made me realize the look in her eyes...

So many others...

I call it the curse of beauty...

The loneliness of it...

SO GUYS...

I FOUND IT EASIER TO APPROACH BABES.. 9 and 10s.. RATHER THAN *****ED UP 7s or 8s...

USE THIS KNOWLEDGE;

YOU VISION ABOUT WOMEN WILL CHANGE!

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF, AND SEE THE LONELY HEART IN THE BABE..

AND NEVER BEHAVE AFC.

WELCOME THE WORLD OF BEING WITH BABES.


P.S.: Am writing some stories into www.finndistan.net

Feel free to check it out!!
 

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Interesting idea.

So tell me this...lots of times if I DO get the balls up to talk to a girl who's particularly hot, their "b*tch shield" comes in the form of not even giving you an ear, rather than listening and blowing you off.

How do you catch her attention for long enough to show your value, before she runs off to her friends/the next guy/whoever she's fishing for attention from next?
 

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I am talking about a girl who is not approached, forget about fishing for attention..

And in my experience, this kind of botch shield goes much higher in average girls than the beauties I approach.. The average girl seems to be more of a attention ho than the really beautiful ones.


and then, every girl has the right to reject and ignore... You, on the other hand, usually mind only the hot ones' than the shield of the average - by average i am talking about 8 and less- girl.

On getting attention,

The only way is to make an over average girl entertained, and horny so that it is seen in her behaviour, in her eyes.. If this is noticed, then maybe the hot one will give you a chance if she did not plan to...

e.g: Saturday, the 9 is entertained heavily by me, I turn around and see this one other nine who shot me down two years ago ruthlessly, just like you say, ignoring me, checking me out, despite the man she had with her.

As I am leaving the bar with my girl, and she with her man, my girl still being entertained, I catch her watching me from the corner of my eye...

she will be my next target practice...
 

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Yes I have to agree. So many girls just dont get approached. Only by drunk guys in bars. Outside of bars, the beautiful girls are still not approached a lot. Handsome guys are also intimidated by them. They are lonely and just waiting for guys to approach them. They are not some kind of creature that doesnt get lonely and doesnt want someone also. They are just like u, u just hve to talk to them and get the digits. Do you know how many guys I see say how the fukc did he get her. Because she is so stunning and he is plain, because he ASKED HER OUT!! And the guy winging is far better looking and envious but cant get the balls to ask anyone out!!

Although I have known of one girl who was simply impossible to crack, she has never had a boyfriend, she is 22, and out of 10 guys I know ALL have been shot down by her. haha, she is an absolute killer. I even know a couple of real dj's who have tried with her and who have also been cained by her. Well the other day I met her, and now it is my turn to try and get the unatainable, haha. Should be fun..........!! I havent been shot down in about the last 20 approaches, so this might be my first rejection in a while, haha, we will see.
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY


Although I have known of one girl who was simply impossible to crack, she has never had a boyfriend, she is 22, and out of 10 guys I know ALL have been shot down by her. haha, she is an absolute killer. I even know a couple of real dj's who have tried with her and who have also been cained by her. Well the other day I met her, and now it is my turn to try and get the unatainable, haha. Should be fun..........!! I havent been shot down in about the last 20 approaches, so this might be my first rejection in a while, haha, we will see.
Maybe she's lesbian, who knows?
 

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Wow CLOONEY

---This needs to be bumped
 

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Trance, haha, yeah I thought of that, maybe she is. But I really doubt it. She is the queen of the icequeens. Just walks around with no expression. I have NEVER seen her talk to a guy, and I have known about her for about 10 years. NEVER even talk to a guy. Only to shoot them down. And some of the shootdowns were pretty harsh I hear, hahahaaha. Although I talked to her and got her smilin (first time EVER, hahaha), plus she went out of her way to talk to me also, so there are definately signs. I havent been rejected in a long time, and she has never accepted a guy, so the odds are about 50/50 I guess. Although it should just be a bit of fun, not like I care so much, a few more on the backburner.
 
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