"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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the CULT OF THE "MAN"

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usually, you can identify the cult and its members by the lingo:

they never say "guy", "dude" or even "male"... or anything as casual as that.

it is always "MAN" and is uttered with tremendous self-seriousness.

you can hear its rumblings around this site certainly. you can also hear it from time to time in everything from men's health magazine to esquire.
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but this is just as silly as when anyone identifies with anything with deadly seriousness without the benefit of DISTANCE, PERSPECTIVE and HUMOR.

whether its conservatism, liberalism, feminaziism or the promise keepers. blind dedication to anything is a chumps' endeavor....

and why is it that the bottom line is almost always some guy or gal peddling something?

HA!

"life is pain. anyone who tells you different is trying to sell you something."

were truer words ever spoken?

to paraphrase king solomon, everything is shyt. and this - this life - all of this - is all a nutty joke.

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cynicism is your friend.

i'm not advocating not believing in anything or even not believing in yourself.

but be willing to take a step back from whatever it is you believe holds the keys to the kingdom and squint at it every now and then.

delta
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What are you selling, becuase i am reading this and dont feel like buying anything you have to offer...
 
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was thinking more about it, and I came to think that maybe it´s not a bad idea to give the cards as a routine, to most girls you approach.

But the ones that you are really interested, I think it´s more safe to go for the digits - you don´t want to miss a HB9 only because she lost your card or just doesn´t pick up the phone and call you!!!

I personally wouldn´t still do it - I enjoy approaching the girl and getting her digits. And who´s the lucky girl than gets to go out with me, I´ll just call her. If something goes wrong, I still have other choices left.

But, everyone has their own style. If you find yours effective, then it´s not AFCish at all!!! I think in most things there are no absolutely right or wrong ways to do it. There is three ways to do things, the bad way, the good way, and then there is my way Or how was it?
 
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pay attention.

i'm offering pain. therefore, i have nothing to sell...

truth is free... alas... if it exists at all.

delta
 
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life is NOT pain, and i'll tell you why...

... but all i need first is your credit card number.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Aye brothers, It seems we have a disbeliever amongst ourselves. I say lets put this heathen six feet under the earth, so that he can never again mar the name of our brotherhood.
 
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Life is Pain...

... and pleasure, and challenge, and fun, and courage, and love, and rage, and shovelling snow, and laying on a beach, and the glory of sexual contact, and the dryness of evenings alone without a choice...

"What you focus on determines what you miss" - me

By the way, "believing in one's self" is a complete and total crock. The madman, the arrogant bastard (that's me!), the girlyman, the success all share one thing in common: They believe in themselves.

Strength comes from understanding that you do NOT know everything, and that there are personal depths that you have not, and may never, explore.

Then again, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I'm just an arrogant bastard...
 
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