I can't remember where I first read about this, either on this board somewhere or in "The Art of Seduction" perhaps, not sure. But it's just an analogy of seeing an empty restaurant, and the idea that that restaurant must be empty for a reason, so most people head across the street to the crowed one.
Although this seems like common sense, I have never really put it into use until recently.
Whenever I was seeing two girls at the same time, or even flirting with more than one, I used to keep it completely separate, never letting the other finding even a hint of the other (s). Oh, how naive I was.
Lately, now that I've been studying everything from my posture to women's shoes, I have been finding nothing but positive feedback from doing just the opposite of what I've been doing all my life. Not that I'm necessarily "A Player" by any means, but it's very clear that the more women find out about your other women, or even the hint of other women, the greater the payoff.
Recently, I've even had a run in with a very angry husband. At first I was embarrassed and it was kept as quiet as possible. But, well beyond my control, is slowly leaked out. And, to my pleasant surprise, it is actually having a very positive influence on my overall "aura".
Now, even a couple girls that have called me a player, seem to call me more and more. Not that I'm out just sleeping around with whoever, but I do show attention to one, and later nonchalantly and quietly shift that attention to one of her friends.
It also works if you get a small gift from one, to accidently leave it out for another to see. Not that any of these girls are actual girlfriends, because things would have to be toned down greatly, but I treat all of them as potentials. Then quietly, behind the scenes, talk to them as if they may be the "special" one.
We guys seem to base most of our interest on what she looks like. Although women do this, they also factor in many other things as well, such as the guys overall popularity or social status. So why not use women against themselves?
Again, not that I'm broadcasting everything about myself or my past to them, but leaving a vague hint here or there works wonders. Also, we all know how they talk, and I'm finding out that their circles are much wider then one would think. If you're out "he-whoring", you may want to keep that quiet. But if you are quietly hooking up with some classy dame, act like your trying to keep it quiet, but letting little things be discovered will help you out immensely with the others.
Has anyone had any negative consequences of doing this? This is probably common knowledge to the veteran Don Juans out there, but I have only recently been "Awakened"
P.S. This also helps with "not putting all your eggs in one basket" idea.
Although this seems like common sense, I have never really put it into use until recently.
Whenever I was seeing two girls at the same time, or even flirting with more than one, I used to keep it completely separate, never letting the other finding even a hint of the other (s). Oh, how naive I was.
Lately, now that I've been studying everything from my posture to women's shoes, I have been finding nothing but positive feedback from doing just the opposite of what I've been doing all my life. Not that I'm necessarily "A Player" by any means, but it's very clear that the more women find out about your other women, or even the hint of other women, the greater the payoff.
Recently, I've even had a run in with a very angry husband. At first I was embarrassed and it was kept as quiet as possible. But, well beyond my control, is slowly leaked out. And, to my pleasant surprise, it is actually having a very positive influence on my overall "aura".
Now, even a couple girls that have called me a player, seem to call me more and more. Not that I'm out just sleeping around with whoever, but I do show attention to one, and later nonchalantly and quietly shift that attention to one of her friends.
It also works if you get a small gift from one, to accidently leave it out for another to see. Not that any of these girls are actual girlfriends, because things would have to be toned down greatly, but I treat all of them as potentials. Then quietly, behind the scenes, talk to them as if they may be the "special" one.
We guys seem to base most of our interest on what she looks like. Although women do this, they also factor in many other things as well, such as the guys overall popularity or social status. So why not use women against themselves?
Again, not that I'm broadcasting everything about myself or my past to them, but leaving a vague hint here or there works wonders. Also, we all know how they talk, and I'm finding out that their circles are much wider then one would think. If you're out "he-whoring", you may want to keep that quiet. But if you are quietly hooking up with some classy dame, act like your trying to keep it quiet, but letting little things be discovered will help you out immensely with the others.
Has anyone had any negative consequences of doing this? This is probably common knowledge to the veteran Don Juans out there, but I have only recently been "Awakened"
P.S. This also helps with "not putting all your eggs in one basket" idea.
