"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

The Crossroads

ohiofutballa

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2004
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Age
38
We all come to crossroads, one time or another. Now is my time, and i need your views.


Ok, im 17, very athletic, one of the best looking(if not the best looking) in my school. Im confident, and everyone knows me. I have never had trouble finding the companionship of a female. About a year ago, one of my friends Joe suggested that i date his girlfriend's friend Sarah. Sarah is a twin who is on danceline. She is in my grade, and is very cute. She is always very well dressed and was in my biology and geometry class. I thought about the possiblities with her for awhile, and realized that even though ive been friends with this girl for about 10 months i can still date her.

Meanwhile, my envious friend Nick "magically" decided that when i was trying to date Sarah, he liked her as well. It turned into a battle, and it was a very fun one. I smoked my friend, and by the end of school me and her were official. We have been dating for 7 months.

Backround on this girl Sarah. She is the sweetest girl ive ever met. She had never kissed a guy and only had one short relationship before me and her started dating. She does not drink and she does not smoke. She is a 8.9-9.0 just in looks, but this girl has one of the best personalities ive seen in a person. I will admit, i have been a d!ck to her and havent been the best boyfriend i can be all the time. I would ditch her, and instead of her yelling and crying, she just says im mad at you, and after and hour she is done being mad. She is just very forgiving. If i were to get into a relationship with a girl in high school, this is the exact kind of girl i would pick.

Now onto the Crossing, I am a partier, i drink and smoke. (please do not give me a lecture) My friends and I are very tight, and one of them Mike, has his OWN house. Its his, his brothers gave it to him and he is the only one that lives there. His house is in a secluded area of woods...The perfect party house. I go there almost every weekend and get drunk and sleep there. I dont invite my girlfriend to these kind of things, because she isnt a partier like i said earlier, and i dont want to be obligate to talk to her while im getting drunk.

Lately though, these parties have been bumpin and a few girls have caught my wandering eye. Through the word of mouth, ive found out that 4 of them think im cute/like me/etc. and my girlfriend has found that out as well. She has said "I dont want to lose you." and she has said that she wants me to quit going to Mikes to party (its okay if i drink but not there.) She has been getting real attached because we had sex for the first time on jan 8th. She got pissed at me because i went to a party on MLK Eve and got hit on, and fell asleep there.

We have been on a break since Last Monday (MLk) and she is getting very impatient. I have been seriously considering pursuing a future with one of the girls at the party her name is Sheena. But if i were to Completely end ties with Sarah now my reputation would be ruined, and some girls wouldnt even talk to me. And if i were to stay with Sarah, Sheena wouldnt talk to me again, because we both know that we are attracted to each other and vice versa.

Also, in my school the semester ended on Friday. For the new semester i am in a different lunch...With Sarah and Sheena both in it....and they sit a table away from each other.

But Also know that with Sheena nothing is guaranteed.

I like drinking, hanging with my friends, hanging with different girls, and just having a good time.

I also like spending time with sarah

Comments and views appreciated. Sorry its very long, but thats how life is.

Signed,
Ohiofutballa
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

TonyTheTigerOI

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2003
Messages
656
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
Buffalo, NY
Youve read about chelsea, right? You never know what the sweetest, most innocent and caring woman youve ever met will do tomorrow - or what she'll do tonight.

Love lasts forever. And you are her first. She is ATTACHED to you. If you left her without a word tomorrow and in 6 months you ran into her again all you owuld have to do is remind her of SOMETHING that she has emotionally tied to love and shes yours again.

So enjoy yourself. There isnt a woman on earth worth holding yourself back for.
 

AFK Protector

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2004
Messages
1,596
Reaction score
4
Location
United States of America
Um....I'd drop kick this Sheena wh0re and stick with the Sarah girl. Sure you think high school is about having fun, but take a moment to consider what effect your actions will have on others. Are you so selfish to think about your d1ck only? I don't think you are. I think you know what the right thing is.
 

DJoneday

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2002
Messages
481
Reaction score
0
Age
39
My vote goes to sara, this other girl is just a fling, while it seems that the sara girl is something special. Is getting trashed really worth a girl who "is the sweetest girl ive ever met."? Think about it.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2003
Messages
656
Reaction score
0
Age
41
Location
Buffalo, NY
"the sweetest girl ive ever met."

That means he hasn't met her yet. Do what the **** you want... when it comes down to it there isnt anyone in this world who wouldnt hurt you it it would help them.

But Im biast. If I were replying this 6 months ago I would have said - go out and **** as many girls as you possibly can in 2 weekends. Then be the man that your nice girl deserves. But beware.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

ohiofutballa

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 8, 2004
Messages
140
Reaction score
0
Age
38
saturday night...still a toss-up, i just dont know if im a one-girl guy yet...Its so tough to turn down so many offers, i hope some of you guys know what i mean. I turn down a different girl every week.

But when im with Sarah, everything is good.

My feelings change all the time...When im with Sarah i want to be with her. When im at a party with other girls, i think damn i hate having a girlfriend. By the way, this Sheena girl isnt a ***** either, shes just as innocent as Sarah was.

Signed,
A contemplating Ohiofutballa
 
Top