"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The crossroads of chivalry

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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soo much **** if it was the opposite, and nooo i would never do that. life is to precious to give up for any woman. what did it prove anyway?
 

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inasilentway93 said:
soo much **** if it was the opposite, and nooo i would never do that. life is to precious to give up for any woman. what did it prove anyway?
What if it was your mother? Daughter? Little sister/cousin/niece? I'd like to think I'd protect my gf if I loved her. But who knows what I would do in that situation. I would probably try to get the fvck out of there.
 

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What if it was your mother? Daughter? Little sister/cousin/niece? I'd like to think I'd protect my gf if I loved her. But who knows what I would do in that situation. I would probably try to get the fvck out of there.
Protecting your family is different from protecting some girl who is not even the mother of your children. You owe her nothing, much less your life.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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