"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THE CRAZY GIRL THREAD

Dgwizdal

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I decided to create this thread in light of people asking me to post screenshots and examples fromy last thread:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/woke-up-to-this-from-the-bpd.231668/

Feel free to post and discuss screen shots, texts, and experiences so that we may educate eachother on how to screen, handle, and remove the cancer that is a BPD / Overly Crazy woman from our lives.

...And have a good laugh in the meantime :rofl:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wow, just wow. Can't contribute much since if I pull crazy its the "I'm gonna stab you or myself" crazy and then I eject. Keep them coming.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So here are some examples on what to look for: Obviously you can see that this is a different kind of Crazy. Completely unstable, impulsive, irrational, lashing out at unwarranted times. Always playing the helpless victim of a cruel world with no responsibility or accountability for herself or her own actions and happiness. She may have claimed that I disrespected her but she forgets why - how did we get to that point? Maybe it was the time where she was running around the bar shoving popcorn into random peoples mouths, or grabbing women's t!ts and guys d!cks as the walk by. Could have been the time she hopped on stage at a concert and stole the mike from the lead singer? Maybe taking her clothes off in front of a bunch of dudes at a pool party? WHO KNOWS. :rofl: To her - it doesn't matter.

All she cares about is how you react. Always wanting you to prove your love thereafter. Impulsively Switching between emotions every time the clock ticks. She has no sense of self - an empty soul that compulses her to do things, say things, just so she FEELS something to fill that empty void while you sit there awstruck. Do not try to figure out why or how as they do not know themselves.

These are only a few flashes in time of a completely sober nut job lashing out at you because she feels abandoned via text. Imagine how things compound when alcohol is added to the mix and she's feeling some type of way because you're tired of her bullsh!t.

Typically, these chicks are very attractive and seductive. Will go from raging at you to worshipping the ground you walk on mimicking the most lovesick, feminine, adoring woman you have ever encountered. Do not be fooled.

WHILE THEY MAKE GOOD MISTRESSES THEY WILL NEVER MAKE A GIRLFRIEND.

Enjoy a ride or two and hop off the crazy train before it goes off a cliff. :rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
 
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Maybe it was the time where she was running around the bar shoving popcorn into random peoples mouths, or grabbing women's t!ts and guys d!cks as the walk by. .
What the hell. This people should seek help, have you tried to tell her that she's sick on the head?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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“This thread makes me cringe.”Yewki-How Should I Respond to This? Urgent, http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/how-should-i-respond-to-this-urgent.230674/page-2

I'm sorry but this is a straight beta male faggot thread and is the antithesis of what we're suppose to be about. It isn't about "recognizing," the signs, and it damn sure isn't about how to deal with a crazy b*tch, but rather what you're about as a man, your personal boundaries, core beliefs, and what you will not tolerate or stand for. I can sum this wack ass thread up in these few words. How do you deal with a crazy b*tch, you check her punk ass. If she doesn't straight up and fly right, you next her punk ass. Period, end of story, close thread, but what this sad sh*t do numbers.
 

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i'm just going to say to be honest the biggest red flag should be she diminishes your quality of life rather than adding to it.

The diagnosis doesn't really even matter, if she makes your life start sucking she's got to go
 

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I generally don't have crazy girl problems anymore because I screen most of them out, but I have a couple of examples kicking around. I'll post them when I get a chance.
Have you had any success with a selfish/crazy one and breaking her somewhat of it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i'm just going to say to be honest the biggest red flag should be she diminishes your quality of life rather than adding to it.

The diagnosis doesn't really even matter, if she makes your life start sucking she's got to go
The real problem is when your life sucks and they actually add something to it so you keep them before you realize you are the problem. So have an awesome life and you will have awesome girls following you.
 

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Ah. I've got an, ahem, 'funny' little story.

I was ignoring an ex-plates repeated phone calls. She got pissed and sent me a pic of a positive pregnancy test. Of course this freaked me out and I "had" to call her back. She went along with it for ten damn scary minutes. "I'm going to keep it", "We can get married and start a family", "I love you"'s, etc.

Then she finally fesses up and says "Reece, I was lying. But I do want those things with you." Instantly I hang up the phone and block her. Keep in mind I was 17 and she 16. Thought I was going to have a heart attack during the call and a brain aneurysm after it.

I wish I still had the text convo of the picture she sent me.

A girlfriend of mine once pranked me the same way, except she came clean once I called her. I give props, that did get me and it was funny, if you get off on that sort of thing.

Moral: Wear a condom.
image.png Been there done that...

It baffles me looking back through some of this sh!t.
 

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Nope. If anything, I made it worse.
This. For me - Checking these chicks makes them more attracted to you and keeps them coming back. However, it doesn't solve any of the problems. And they will only try to label you as abusive down the line for putting them in their place.
 

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Holy ****. Now I know I've experienced nothing compared to the craze this is. I would post logs too, if I had any - not dealt with this kind of girl. "This is not a plot to get u to talk to me. This is a legit concern." wow haha, does that girl think you're completely retarded?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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