"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Courage to be Worthy

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DanelMadr

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Good find, man. Good insight.

As I get it...embrace your vulnerability. Basically don§t let your ego and sense of self importnace cloud your mind.
 

Julius_Seizeher

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Ehh sounds like more simpering New Age (Old School Platonism) half-baked philosophy of using emotional indulgence as an excuse for weakness.

Get it straight, guys: Aristotle is for men, Plato for women.
 

Razor Sharp

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@Danel, exactly. It's also about authenticity and connection, something I've discussed at length here.

@Julius, I fail to see the "emotional indulgence" in having compassion and believing that you are worthy of happiness. Seems pretty fundamental to being a complete human being to me. *shrugs*

It's also worth noting that this is not philosophy AT ALL. This woman's findings are corroborated by years of statistical studies - pure number-crunching, which you so casually dismiss as "new age".
 
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