"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the cost of dating women: news article!

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It is interesting article that summarize the current dating trend in N. America. The guy in the article actually calculate the cost of each date. No one bothers calculate the cost and express verbally like him.
 

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picard said:
It is interesting article that summarize the current dating trend in N. America. The guy in the article actually calculate the cost of each date. No one bothers calculate the cost and express verbally like him.
No its not interesting and its not unique. The guy is an AFC thus he calculates what dating a hor/gold digger whatever you want to call it costs HIM. Its his reality and all he knows obviously.

Again it has no relevance to anyone here, finding an article written for the matrix shouldnt be all that "interesting" to you either. Youve been here since july 05, a society prepared article like that should be nothing more than a joke and maybe a touch of pity for you by now.
 

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interesting

Well look at it differently. If he was paying all that and was not getting laid, and/or not getting into a relationship (ie called a "Nice guy" or entering the "friends zone"), then yea he is an afc. But if it is just part of a process, then what is the problem? I think part of being a DJ is also knowing when to spend and when not to (you don't spend to create the interest in the first place, and only in moderation).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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D@mn. Maybe 500 is what it takes a pvssy to get pvssy.

5 sounds more realistic.
 
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