"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Correct Way to Checkin a Girl Out

Big Poppa

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Is there a corect way to check a girl out? Ae there different ways? I jus tend to look at them in an obvious way and when they catch me smile at them o wink. I usually opt for smiling.

So fill me in Don Juans, what's the best way to check a girl out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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War Against Betaism

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I usually don't check a girl out unless after I've met them. Before meeting them and our eyes cross paths, I keep eye contact and if she locks on for a second longer, I smile and see what goes on from there.
 
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