Serenity
Moderator
There is one thing that is central to changing yourself, and that's persistence.
First you would be persistent about trying until you have proven to yourself that you can achieve something you didn't think you could do. Then you would be persistent to figure out what you did wrong in order to be better next time. Before you know it you're persistent about trying to figure yourself out, and that's when the magic is starting to happen.
When you're getting close your persistence will become strength itself. It will allow you to build a rock solid foundation for yourself, and you get the power to handle everything.
The persistence can be motivated by fear, frustration, anger, regret or simply knowing that you don't ever give up. Channel whatever negative emotion you're having into persistence about finding out how to relieve yourself of it.
How can you do something if you don't think you can do it?
First you would be persistent about trying until you have proven to yourself that you can achieve something you didn't think you could do. Then you would be persistent to figure out what you did wrong in order to be better next time. Before you know it you're persistent about trying to figure yourself out, and that's when the magic is starting to happen.
When you're getting close your persistence will become strength itself. It will allow you to build a rock solid foundation for yourself, and you get the power to handle everything.
The persistence can be motivated by fear, frustration, anger, regret or simply knowing that you don't ever give up. Channel whatever negative emotion you're having into persistence about finding out how to relieve yourself of it.
How can you do something if you don't think you can do it?