"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HollowHorizon

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ME :::(5:26:36 PM): ok, sondra can i ask you somthing?

HER::::: (5:26:40 PM): yessss


HER :::: ask
ME Alright, Say On A 1-10 How Well Do You Think This Is Working Out And Be Honest
HER::::: ummm, well the days we do chill and that i'd say a 10 but, when we don't it kind of sucks
.ME Well, I'd Really Like To Know How You Feel About Everything
HER What do you mean?
ME It really matters for me to know how you feel
ME Well how do you feel about me, and just going out in general, what do you like and dislike... What do you need to be truly happy in your life
ME :5:31:14 PM): Look all im saying is im willing to walk a million miles for you, i just need to know if its worth it

HER::::: well, it dont take much to make me happy to be honest. . . and umm the relationship I like <3 it but some times i have to realise you got things to do and i got to do and wre not gonna be able to hang out which really sucksss.
ME : Yes, I understand that too.... and i get my self in this place i can't escape, i guess when you haning out with pepole im just plain jelous even if im with my friends
HER::::: : oohh i get itt
ME :::lol its not like super jelous but a little bit uno
HER::::: : yeaa
ME :::I figured we just be honest now to save us from crumbling later, cuz your a really nice girl and i like you alot
HER::::: : mkay =]
ME :::: Well im glad i got to talk to you about that
HER:::::: mhmmmm



Ok, Where did i go wrong with that........ Suggestions and comments would be great thank you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ouch, man.


don't ask about her feelings...ESPECIALLY not online.


you may be trying to get an answer out of her to ease whatever anxiety you're feeling..but she can see right through that, (as evidenced by her responses), and, i guarantee you...


all she sees is a coward.



guys who look for approval, and ask about women's feelings don't get panties wet.
 
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BadAssMoFo said:
ouch, man.


don't ask about her feelings...ESPECIALLY not online.


you may be trying to get an answer out of her to ease whatever anxiety you're feeling..but she can see right through that, (as evidenced by her responses), and, i guarantee you...


all she sees is a coward.



guys who look for approval, and ask about women's feelings don't get panties wet.
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youve been here since 2003 and you came off like a symp.

i have nothing constructive to offer
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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