"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HollowHorizon

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ME :::(5:26:36 PM): ok, sondra can i ask you somthing?

HER::::: (5:26:40 PM): yessss


HER :::: ask
ME Alright, Say On A 1-10 How Well Do You Think This Is Working Out And Be Honest
HER::::: ummm, well the days we do chill and that i'd say a 10 but, when we don't it kind of sucks
.ME Well, I'd Really Like To Know How You Feel About Everything
HER What do you mean?
ME It really matters for me to know how you feel
ME Well how do you feel about me, and just going out in general, what do you like and dislike... What do you need to be truly happy in your life
ME :5:31:14 PM): Look all im saying is im willing to walk a million miles for you, i just need to know if its worth it

HER::::: well, it dont take much to make me happy to be honest. . . and umm the relationship I like <3 it but some times i have to realise you got things to do and i got to do and wre not gonna be able to hang out which really sucksss.
ME : Yes, I understand that too.... and i get my self in this place i can't escape, i guess when you haning out with pepole im just plain jelous even if im with my friends
HER::::: : oohh i get itt
ME :::lol its not like super jelous but a little bit uno
HER::::: : yeaa
ME :::I figured we just be honest now to save us from crumbling later, cuz your a really nice girl and i like you alot
HER::::: : mkay =]
ME :::: Well im glad i got to talk to you about that
HER:::::: mhmmmm



Ok, Where did i go wrong with that........ Suggestions and comments would be great thank you
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ouch, man.


don't ask about her feelings...ESPECIALLY not online.


you may be trying to get an answer out of her to ease whatever anxiety you're feeling..but she can see right through that, (as evidenced by her responses), and, i guarantee you...


all she sees is a coward.



guys who look for approval, and ask about women's feelings don't get panties wet.
 
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BadAssMoFo said:
ouch, man.


don't ask about her feelings...ESPECIALLY not online.


you may be trying to get an answer out of her to ease whatever anxiety you're feeling..but she can see right through that, (as evidenced by her responses), and, i guarantee you...


all she sees is a coward.



guys who look for approval, and ask about women's feelings don't get panties wet.
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youve been here since 2003 and you came off like a symp.

i have nothing constructive to offer
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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