the confusion

[ptlb]

I went out on a date with some girl for coffee last Wednesday. Went really well. As we were leaving from the coffee shop, she thanked me for showing her a good time. As I was driving back home, 20 minutes later i received a text message saying:

thank you again,
i had a really good time tonight.
have a good night
xox

So after that, I’m telling myself that she interested in me and I’m like "nice"
I spoke about it with 2 of my female friends about my night. I asked them, when I should call her next. They told me to wait until Sunday... make her sweat. So I called Sunday and asked her if she wanted to go out that night. She was busy. I asked if she wanted to go out Monday night. She said yes, so I told her to give me a call the Monday. Tonight is Wednesday; I still didn't get a call from her. Both of my female friends told me to call her tomorrow, give the girl a chance, she seems interested. The whole text message gave me mixed signals, now I’m lost, don’t know what to do . Should I take my 2 female friends’ advice and call her tomorrow or should I next her?

 

[Ace of Flames]

Why did you ask girls for advice on getting girls? Let this be a lesson to you. Don't do that again.

Now as for this girl, what the hell? Go ahead and call one last time. Who cares what happens at this point, right? If something good happens, great. Most likely though, you'll just get her voicemail, and then you'll next her.

 

[Phyzzle]

You did one thing wrong already.

I asked if she wanted to go out Monday night. She said yes, so I told her to give me a call the Monday.

Ask her if she wants to go out to Monday night. Then go out with her Monday night. I don't see why she has to call you. Just show up.

Telling a girl (you hardly know) to call you is like sitting at a bar, not saying anything, waiting for hotties to chat you up. You could be waiting a while.

Anyway, give her one more chance.