The clubs on V-day...yay or nay?

[squirrels]

DO NOT reply to this thread unless you have BEEN TO A CLUB on Valentine's day and have EXPERIENCE.

A friend of mine and I were discussing whether the clubs are viable on Valentine's day. He claims that all the wild girls are out looking for someone to hook up with. I was of the idea that they'd be out partying up with their girlfriends and having a "to hell with guys" night among themselves.

But then we established the fact that neither one of us has actually BEEN clubbing on Valentine's day.

So those of you who have BEEN...what's it like? Lots of hotties without men looking to get laid? Lots of "girls night out" parties? A bunch of left-over desperate trolls?

Again, don't post here and say, "I've never been, but I'd think..." cuz no one cares what you THINK. I've talked to a bunch of people and they all THINK, but no one's BEEN. So I'm asking for people who have BEEN to tell me what they've SEEN.

Thanks.

 

[ManOMan]

Having been single and going to clubs the last 3 years, I found the vibe in the clubs was kinda different. Yes, there are ALOT of trolls. But there are a few HB's too.

But the air is really awkward,its like everyone there felt like they were losers for being single on V day, so they tried to overcompensate by being both friendly and open to meeting new people. It is really difficult to describe, its like deep down women were resentful, yet they were forcing themselves to be friendly, and they would be pissy and frustrated as the clock was ticking and the only guys that would hit on them were the AFC's.

Then there were the girls who were really bitter about being single and had their sheilds up in a way as to convince themselves that they were single because they CHOSE to be - so as an effect they shot down guys on purpose just to believe their own lies.

But overall, its just like another weekend. Some people really dont give too much stock to Vday and go out to have fun anyways

 

[DankNuggs]

Its like shooting fish in a barrell. I already posted on this somewhere, but once those girls get a few drinks in them, they get horny and the void of a guy in their lives on this very girly day leads them the be very approachable. Its a saturday this year, big things abrewing...

I have two girls I have to call tonight, however neither are going to be a valentines date...

 

[FreeStyleZ]

Then there were the girls who were really bitter about being single and had their sheilds up in a way as to convince themselves that they were single because they CHOSE to be - so as an effect they shot down guys on purpose just to believe their own lies.

That sounds like what i'd assume it would be like. They suffer from cognative dissonance... that is if i remember psychology correctly.

I responded to this thread because i wanted to, thanks.

 

[MrBond007]

At my favorite nightclub in my town they have that valentine special each year where you wear a glow-stick ring around your arm to tell others you are single. The goal is for a maximum of people to get someone else before they get out of there.

A lot of people (especially girls) who arent singles also wear the g-sticks and then try to make fun of you for hitting on them...well it never happened to me but to my friend...just have to tell them they shoudnt be wearing it in the first place. Yes, the whole idea is AFC but it does work when you have both the looks and confidence to back it up ( I do ).

 

[ManOMan]

isnt that kinda self defeating?

I mean what happens to the mystery/challenge if you have a Label saying "IM SINGLE!!" it kind of reeks of desperation

and what about the girls who want to shoo a guy away by saying "I have a boyfriend", if they have a glowstick, they cant do that

Finally, I think the girls you said who have boyfriends but wear a glowstick are BSing.

They may/may not have boyfriends, but they are open to meeting newer/better guys

The fact the the girl shooed your friend and said "I have a boyfriend! I was just playin!"

just says she wasnt interested in HIM, and was trying to get rid of him

 

[MrBond007]

Originally posted by ManOMan
isnt that kinda self defeating?

I mean what happens to the mystery/challenge if you have a Label saying "IM SINGLE!!" it kind of reeks of desperation

and what about the girls who want to shoo a guy away by saying "I have a boyfriend", if they have a glowstick, they cant do that

Finally, I think the girls you said who have boyfriends but wear a glowstick are BSing.

They may/may not have boyfriends, but they are open to meeting newer/better guys

The fact the the girl shooed your friend and said "I have a boyfriend! I was just playin!"

just says she wasnt interested in HIM, and was trying to get rid of him

Well I KNOW for a fact that some girls went there with their boyfriends and took a g-stick anyway.

Self- defeating? Maybe for most people. Id say that almost everyone wont approach more t han one person if not any at all because of shyness AFCness. I do not mind saying I am single even though my friends argue that I am because I have a lot of intercourse goin on now and then.

...**** its 4 AM...I usually wake up at 5 for work but my clock got something and displayed 5AM when it was actually 2.I heard it on the radio and came back home because its way too early.I was back home at 3...Fucking alarm clock.