"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have a look at this brief infield video of Tyler Durden pulling a woman off the street, I'd like your impressions. Fast forward to the 2:54 mark to see the clip:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KC1hLhtk3KA&feature=results_video&playnext=1&list=PL3139300D2FA1D93D

This is a nice ballsy move by Tyler. I do believe women are attracted to bold confident moves like this. Of course, grabbing a woman in a club is one thing, grabbing a woman off a dark street is another. It wouldn't take much imagination for a woman to think she is being mugged - you could see something like this going very badly. However, I've noticed that if a poster brings something like this up on the RSD forum, they are heavily ridiculed.
At the very least they would tell you that you are uncalibrated if you can't pull something like this off.

Also impressive is the way he brings up intercourse twice almost immediately:
"We're just fvcking around".

My real question is do you think this video is real? I say this because I've read of rumors that RSD pay women to flirt with their students at their bootcamps. Could this girl be in on it? There's something about the way Tyler steps out and moves on her that looks suspicious to me. Sort of like bad acting in a scripted reality show.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I like sosuave cause its normal, you go on those other forums its like everyone is a master pua and any instructor is a god that must be bowed down to. Gurus are marketers above anything else so.. take everything with a grain of salt.

Think of all the female hypersensitivity these days, then equate how Cain is getting his name blown away on the news for a "bold se-xual advance". You can still achieve good close numbers without pushing the limits.
 

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3countriesPlan said:
I like sosuave cause its normal, you go on those other forums its like everyone is a master pua and any instructor is a god that must be bowed down to. Gurus are marketers above anything else so.. take everything with a grain of salt.
I sometimes like to read the RSD forum, they have a somewhat different spin on things. I never post there however. Like you say, I don't like the idea that you are involved in a product. Here there is no product (other than the site itself).

Also, like you say there is a lot of "fanboy" stuff going on over there, as far as worshipping the instructors. But I do think their content is as solid as anybody else's out there.

Any comments on the infield video? Is this something you would do?
 

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zekko said:
Any comments on the infield video? Is this something you would do?
Catch a woman who's having a bad night and she's going to flip out on you. If this woman was just in a fight with her best friend or her bf, the outcome would have been much different.

I could see doing something like this if I'd already noticed that the woman is in a decent mood. However, it seems that Tyler didn't even bother to collect this information and just threw himself in front of a random woman.
 

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Desdinova said:
I could see doing something like this if I'd already noticed that the woman is in a decent mood. However, it seems that Tyler didn't even bother to collect this information and just threw himself in front of a random woman.
He said he was practicing the three second rule. Don't think, don't find an excuse, just go.

If the woman flipped out on him I'm sure he would just say it was funny. According to Tyler, the attitude to have is everything is funny. If you get laid it's funny, if you get blown out it's funny. Self amuse.

I have no doubt Tyler could pull this sort of thing off, but I still wonder if the girl was a plant.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seems legit to me. Of course, the wildcard in this type of thing is whether or not the woman is open to meeting a strange guy. If she had reacted negatively to his initial approach, he obviously wouldn't have "clawed" her in. She demonstrated compliance and probably gave at least a smile, which gave him the green light to escalate rather quickly.

Would this approach work most of the time? I seriously doubt it. It doesn't matter how good his body language was; most girls will not react well to being grabbed by a stranger. It's important to receive an approach invitation in the form of a smile or significant eye contact to avoid scaring the hell out of a girl.

RSD has contributed a lot of good ideas, though it tends to bog itself down in theory. I don't think that it's a good method for beginners that are already likely to lack social skills. You need to be able to come across as "normal" when the situation calls for it.
 
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